We’ve been dating 10 months and just finished our first month away from each other. Before he moved he promised we would talk all the time and there’s already been several days where he barely texts or doesn’t video call for multiple days in a row. He claims he needed time to work on his career and focus on building himself but he went out with his old best friend 4 nights in one week and hangs out with other friends most other nights. i try not to be jealous because he has talked a lot about a future with me but I feel purposely left out at this point in his life. He has had a toxic ex in the past and will sometimes assume that I will get mad at things before I even get a chance to hear what he has to say, and in turn this makes me feel guilty and sad because I hate him feeling that way towards me. This whole situation is very confusing to me and I don’t have a lot of close friends i can personally talk too so any advice would help.
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This is the hard part of LDR and what makes it worth it or not. Communication is key in general, but once you add in the distance, aside from trust that is all you have. So when he moved away and suddenly starts acting way different, that’s a red flag in my opinion. You could talk to him about it, maybe plan for a visit soon or figure out some ways to make you feel included. But I have a feeling that it isn’t so much about involving you in his activities and more about the distance in general. Like do you have a plan to move closer?
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He's a fucking liar. He's cheating on you.
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