If a woman doesn't initiate sleeping together by the third date, is it a sign she is not interested in you?

[bananaskins]

[AviatorTom]

Not necessarily. If she continues to date the guy, she us showing some interest.

I dated a woman who pulled that "rule" on me. I was taking things slow, and she decided that there was no chemistry after 3 dates, so we broke up. Sad.

[WaterIsland]

Umm no… everyone is different and has different levels of comfort. Some people want to wait longer before sleeping together, others are ok right away. There is no defined timeframe.


Can’t assume she doesn’t like you because of that.

[Adaeva]

Of course not, I'm not going to have sex for the next few years but that doesn't mean I'm not interested a guy. Even if I was willing to have sex, I would never initiate it.

[jennifer_bloom]

I know girls who date for 6 years without sex and if a guy does not want to pay for 6 years of dates, it’s okay to have both people pay.

[Anonymous]

You dump her. Simple.

[Anonymous]

It is not a good sign.

[In_Trance]

Nope