A guy had a deep crush on me and I ignored him a lot since I didn't understand his feelings while he was giving me hints. Now he's avoiding me. Why?

[Anonymous]

He's not even looking at me. Will he ever come back? Or forget my existence?

[ShiftingMonke]

Do you want him to come back? To clarify: do you want him to continue desiring you, giving you unrequited love, or do you want to give him a chance?

[Asker]

Wanna give him a chance

[ShiftingMonke]

Then i would reach out to him by any means necessary, explaining in great detail what happened and promise yourself that you will give him a fair chance. He has moved on from you, so if you convince him to give you a chance, that's a responsibility you shouldn't take lightly.

[Danny_dan92]

If he’s anything like a guy like me? Yeah. No point obsessing over a woman that doesn’t give a shit about you

[PinkRose24]

A guy that likes you will straight out tell you. If he's just flirting and doesn't go out of his way to get to know you, then he's an f*ckboi.

[Mayo503]

Maybe he feels you don’t want him…?
So talk to him or show him you want him

[Brando10222]

Lol you answered your own question. Why do you want attention from him when you don't like him?

[Danny_dan92]

Exactly. Typical female logic

[Brando10222]

@Danny_dan92 yeah 😂

[Asker]

I like him. But I was ignoring him because I wanted him to come and speak with me instead of giving me hints. Instead he choose to stop caring about me

[PinkRose24]

Are you scared he was a f*uckboi so you ignored him? Or something?

[Asker]

@PinkRose24 No. I wanted him to speak up instead of giving hints

[PinkRose24]

Oh then he probably doesn't like you enough to go out of his way to ask you out?

[Asker]

@PinkRose24 might be

[mixedjason]

What goes around comes around

[warsevf]

Just ask him the same question

[LazerBean]

He moved on.

[WhitneySnow]

Talk to him