A girl used me for money, I’m thinking of ending it?

[Anonymous]

I get used by girls all the time in every way imaginable. And this time was the last straw. I just kill myself. F this life. I only get fucked by the people I love. I’m scared of drowning, but I think it’s not that bad of a way to die.

[OfMiceandMen]

You will lose money along the way in life, whether you misplace or someone you trust takes it. You can't let that be something that turns you sour about life.

Money is not the be all to end all. I try to look at the positive in any negative outcome. You learned a lesson about some women, and now you know what those woman are like and looking for. I have a rule, unless I've been with a woman for longer than a year, I don't loan money and I don't buy really expensive gifts for them. It weeds-out those women who are only after these things.

You also have to develop a bit thicker of a skin, and let things like this roll off your back. The good thing is, you learned a valuable lesson and I am sure you will be able to see things like this coming.

Don't take it so hard, we've all been impacted by people like this, whether it be a friend or even family. Just chalk it up to a valuable lesson learned and move forward. Your young and sometimes the lessons in life can be tough, but they make us who we are when we conquer those lessons.

[NewYorkCity]

First of all, killing yourself is not a way out. Secondly, try to learn from your mistakes, try to remember all the bad things that happened to you and stop being so open and trust worthy when it comes to girls. It seems like you have a patter when it comes to choosing girls, try to break that patter, try other type of girls and remember all the bad experiences that happened to you before. If you see something is leading toward the same situation that you have experienced before IMMEDIATELY stop that girl and move on without looking back. If you don't fail you don't lear. Looks like you have failed a lot, now it is time to learn and use that knowledge to your advantage.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Don't end your life, no matter what. That is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I know that is the joke though, what they say... because some temporary problems can last years.

Learn and grow from it, realize that you can earn more money but in the future don't let someone use you for money. That is unless you are getting something out of it.

It may sound selfish, but it is not. Wanting something back for helping someone is not being selfish, that is life.

Nice people who give too much and get taken advantage of, will eventually turn into not so nice people and jerks. You possibly know what I am referring to, cause I'm the same way. Don't let it change you.

Instead protect yourself better, if someone only wants to use you then personal barriers and protection will make them give up.

[Anonymous]

Think of love as a luxury, u dont need it to live

[Asker]

But I have been living like that my whole life. It’s not great. I make good money at my job. And girls like because of my looks too. But I still get treated like shit. I just want to kill. I’m tired of this world. Nothing makes me happy here.

[Asker]

Kill myself*

[Opinion Owner]

Bro dont say that. Stop chasing and let them come naturally and thats when you know it’s real. Me myself i stopped caring to find a boyfriend or whatever it is because i just know no one’s gonna want or treat me nicely. Finally im used to it even though it sucks at first

I hope you’ll find peace

[Opinion Owner]

+ and once you know and content with handling so much things by yourself, nothings gonna fk you. It’s just you and god

[Asker]

It has happened to me more times than I can remember. I still get fucked. this world ain’t worth living. Like I said, I have pretty much everything I wanted in life in terms of materialistic stuff, but happiness doesn’t last.

[Opinion Owner]

I promise i’ve been there, i used to want to end myself too. BUT by dying you’ll miss out on so much cool shit in life and those who used to fked u up will get to experience it, meanwhile you're in another dimension being alone with the darkness with no opportunity to have fun. Big W to the scammers, big L to you

Cmon you're still young as hell, dont think like it’s the end of the world. Many people fail in life but they dont give up so why can’t u

[Asker]

I fallen in love more than I can remember as well. There’s nothing to miss. I’m honestly tired of it. I’m gonna commit suicide sometime soon. I’m sure my mom will miss me the most, but she’ll get over it eventually. I’ll miss my whole family too, but they’ll get over it eventually as well. I suffered enough

[Opinion Owner]

You know you're in a dark place, you tend to see things negatively, bad days bad lucks happen and they’ll eventually pass too. Still i say, suicide is never the answer, giving up because of love is a lame move. Hope things gets better for you and you’ll get the help you need

[Asker]

I know, but I’m tired of constant heartbreaks. I’m tired of people using. I’m writing this with tears

[Opinion Owner]

Bro dont be sad. I understand how u feel. I know how emotionally tired feels like. I say just focus on who appreciates you and think/talk to yourself positively, never negatively because words are energy and your body will absorb it. Push all the ugly experiences away and let the positive ones bring you up

[ShiftingMonke]

Dude, it was a scam. If you've been used by women, it doesn't mean you don't deserve life, it just means you're an easy mark. Stop interacting with women like that; a woman you can buy is not a woman you want. Focus on yourself and become someone that you're proud of.

[Asker]

I have. I have a great career. I done more for people than anyone I know. Fuck this place. Robin Williams was a great man, but even he knew how shitty this world is.

[ShiftingMonke]

Well you seem to have it all figured out; reason and logic are just out the window tonight. At least have the courtesy to not make a mess of it, someone else will have to clean it up.

[Tyrael]

Robin Williams had a terminal illness mate. He did what he did to save his wife and kids from having to watch him deteriorate. It's quite different.

You should see a therapist so you have someone to talk things through with. It can really help.

[inhua]

there's probably going to be some users later on who try to twist this into you being the bad guy.

anyway the best thing you can do from here on out is ignore everybody who labels you as "cheap" and "not a real man" for not spending your money on women.

[earthcitizen7]

If you have money, it can be advisable to find a girl who likes you, and THEN let her know you have money. There are WAY too many people on Our Earth, who are slaves to money. That is a terrible way to live: It is bad for your mental, emotional, and physical health, and it can REALLY screw up this life, and your future lives.

God created Our Universe with Love and Free Will. Use your Free Will to Love!

[Josssef]

Dawg stop being nice guy and master pump and dump you callin shit like straw making me mad asf put your ass some value and be like a venus fly trap idgaf what it's called but attract bitches with money and fuck em and without giving no shit dump em simple shiit bruh lemme see that toxic masculinity let me see the gigachad, the thundercock the Andrew tate the top g in you

[Josssef]

Or else I will crush your balls with my balls

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Find a better purpose for yourself, just fuck all of that, get help, and just have fun with life l. Fuck relationships.

[ThomasDavid1989]

What girl doesn't?