Do you think 18 and 19 year old girls are too picky with who they choose to date?

[Anonymous]

[AmyHew1tt]

I think we just aren't shown what we should look for in a dating partner. I've said this before, but what we're fed through media really does leave an impact.

I think attraction standards are very high, even for me. Even if I wanted to I don't think I could date a guy who didn't attract me, and unfortunately, you can't always choose who you find handsome.

I things like height, when it's like: "he can't be under six foot two!' or dick length like he has to be a solid eight inches or he's for the trash, I think yeah, too picky, too brainwashed, too naive. But we should be pickier when it comes to the guys' personalities.

Anyway, I guess it's a mix of too picky and not picky enough.

[Weapon77]

Not at all. I think the exact opposite actually. And there is a mountain if evidence supporting my view. Young girls are far more likely than older ladies to date the hottest/coolest guy around them no matter what other traits he might have. He might be on drugs or a dealer... oh but has this coll edgy style and great hair. He might be fucking 5 girls at once and a serial cheater... oh but he's so cool and fun. He might be verbally or physically abusive... oh but he's the hottest guy I know. It's not every girl, obviously, but that kind of thinking happens far more with 18-19 year olds because they are legally adults who think they are grown, when most of them still have a lot to learn, so they makr a lot of terribke decisions based on impulses they don't fully understand. There is a reason good parents are so valuable.

[NewYorkCity]

They are and they have to be. 18 year old girls know their value and their value are Extremely high, so I don't blame any of them for trying to get the biggest most handsome guy out there (hopefully for long term relationship and marriage) and not for a one night stand. Because ones they slept with 5 different guys the odds for them to settle down and be truly happy drops dramatically.

[Anonymous]

They are not even picky rather stupid at that age. Sex drive curiosity plus not having their fathers at home is damaging for girls. Think of Gabby Petito. Giles who are raised without their father figure get tricked easily and don’t know how to navigate a stable life.. also a step fathers ruins it worser.


Men have to be wise choosing their partner. That’s why men think by logic women by emotions. In this world however you can’t survive through emotions..

[Paul_in_Indy]

Has a guy who has spent an awful lot of time on college campuses, my assessment is that you have this completely backwards. I see far too many freshman and sophomore girls willing to jump on any guys who make them feel seen and heard.

Certainly, when I was younger I did not find that girls were too picky to give me attention.

[Bricealan]

They are, and should be. At 18 or 19 most girls are very attractive, very lean body mass, nice shape, etc. If I were a 18 or 19 year old girl, with those attributes, I would be very 'picky' and selective about who I went out with, who I sucked, slept with, etc.

In my very early 20's I was very lucky and had those opportunities, but did not really appreciate how lucky I was.

[Anonymous]

I remember in my mid and late 20s going on a few dates and hooking up with a few 18-19 year olds.

Truth is they were actually more fun than girls in their 20s. The bitchiness typically really sets in their early 20s from my observations. I have a few theories why if anyone wants me to elaborate.

[Anonymous]

I think 18 and 19 year old girls are fresh out of highschool and have no idea who they want to date. Probably whoever fulfills whatever silly fantasy is still stuck in their minds from their teenage years.

I wouldn't worry about it though. Personally, I view girls that age as kids and I want nothing to do with them sexually, but maybe that's just me

[BCA6010]

My experience and observations at that age were largely the opposite view entirely, and now I'd say they shouldn't be dating at all in their teenage years. Basically nobody at that age is making smart decisions.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, people have different preferences, but most people in general need to be pickier than they are. Most women in their late teens tend to fuck anything cute/hot with a pulse, they could use far more pickiness in their choices.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

They're teenagers, they might not know what they're looking for yet, only have an idea of what they'd like.

[Anonymous]

Too picky because they’re not picking you? Lol. No, if anything they’re not picky enough.

[Bricealan]

Probably true for him, that is why he is asking.

[LazerBean]

No, people's standards are on the ground these days.

[Zbrody1997]

Yes, they are young and have overly high expectations though not all of them. Still it’s becoming clear Lovell people are becoming accepting in someways but unaccepting in others.

[Adam1978]

Sounds like they aren't even dating they having hookups and situationships with the same guys all of them.

[Exterminatore]

Situationships 😂😂😂😂

I’m stealing that line.

[LuvMeSomeBoys]

No. If anything, they're not selective enough.

[Bricealan]

I think you are correct.

[Étoile9]

Please stay away from those girls if you are close to their age thanks.

[Anonymous]

They want the finished product, they aren't willing invest in a guy and who he might become. That's why you see a lot of 18-30 year old girls with older men.

[Anonymous]

Thetr is a high demand for them. It is natutal for them to be picky.

But the side-effect is, many just don't learn to not be picky over time.

[jamesgoldman]

Well when I was 16 I ended up dating 2 18 year olds who were in every way better than me so I guess no

[Anonymous]

probably since relationships when you're 18-19 years old never ever last. so what's the point

[Anonymous]

Nobody, male or female, have any idea about anything at that age.

[Bricealan]

Sad to say, but yes, that is a true statement

[LiamJHayden]

No idea, as I have no interest in girls that young.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

No they should be extremely picky with who they date and even more picky with who the lay with but not so much that they waste their prime

[Twalli]

No, if anything they will date any guy they find physically attractive. They don't care about the mind or personality

[dragoblack]

That's the past few generations in general. I'm 30 and even women my age have unrealistic expectations.

[Anonymous]

Not if they are able to date guys who meet their standards.

[Anonymous]

No. If anything, they're too reckless. I've seen a lot of young girls dating some real losers.

[Babygirl_S]

Lack of maturity can make someone very particular about what they like.

[Luckycharms12]

That's there choice there body and lives nothing to do with me

[ThomasDavid1989]

I think 19 year olds shouldn't be dating and having babies with 34 year olds

[Anonymous]

Im 18, the age of consent is 16. Its much easier for me to date younger, but I can date any age.

[prensesmishka]

No, but they better be.

[Agape93]

Nope. They can date who they want

[boggboss]

What do u mean by too picky tho

[SnowedIn]

They can choose who they want. No.

[chicosuave]

yes very picky girls.

[annabananna]

No they aren’t picky enough.

[Mansearching]

They were when I was their age.

[lottiebannotie]

No why do you think they are?

[Paul_in_Indy]

He just hasn’t met enough English girls. :-)

[Tomisworthless]

Yes they will always chase the hottest guys

[In_Trance]

Probably not picky enough

[melanieeeB]

Nope.

[legalgirlie]

I'm 18, and no we are not. I'm just lonely lol