Why did my Ex Boyfriend's friend secretly view my instagtam storiesm?

[Anonymous]

I caught him viewing my instagtam highlight. He clearly didn’t want to get caught. Why would he view my posts since he’s never met me and he’s best friends with the guy I used to talk to?

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[coachTanthony]

Because he wants to know if you are watching him watching you and if you care or not and it seems you do. So just hit him up if you still like him.

[Asker]

Who should I hit up? The friend or the ex lol?

[coachTanthony]

Have you ever been interested in his friend? If so hit him up if not maybe he is checking on behalf of your ex.

[Asker]

I’ve never talked to the friend before

[Asker]

I liked his old picture and still he hasn’t messaged. That’s why I’m confused

[coachTanthony]

you liked his friends old picture?

[Asker]

Yeah

[coachTanthony]

Maybe it's time to comment and see what happens. If he is interested he will reciprocate if he is just curious he probably won't.

[Asker]

Comment under his pic? If he’s not making any moves I rarher not waste my time on him. Also I would look real stupid if he’s keeping tabs on me for the other guy.

[coachTanthony]

Leaving a comment under one of his posts. Takes 5 seconds. I think you are worrying too much how others might perceive it. You don't get or find out things by worrying about others opinions.

[Asker]

I thought liking his old pic was enough hint…

[Asker]

Also isn’t suspicious that he’s really good friends with the guy I used to talk to?

[coachTanthony]

If you like the friend who cares what it looks like? If you don't then just simply move on. I mean suspicious to who? Unless you are in HS I wouldn't worry about such things.

[Asker]

I kinda like the first guy still

[coachTanthony]

Your EX?

[Asker]

Yes the ex

[coachTanthony]

Be a boss and go comment on your ex's friends page and say hey you still keep in touch with Jimmy? or whatever his name is. That should cause a stir up lol

[Asker]

Do you think the ex has something to do with this friend’s behaviour (like the friend viewing my instagram highlights without even following me)

[coachTanthony]

No idea and you'll never know unless you start asking some questions.

[Asker]

What questions without looking crazy or desperate lol

[coachTanthony]

Just comment on the post itself. That was funny. Or yup I agree. something simple and see if he responds. No response gets no more responses from you.

[Asker]

Do you mean I should comment on his stories?

[Guy13]

Seeing how you are doing but did not want to get all wrapped up in your drama. He obviously has not forgotten what that is like.

[Asker]

Who hasn’t forgot about me?

[Guy13]

Your Ex has not forgotten how things in your relationship was. The separation may be making his heart grow fonder and miss the relationship.

[ashish804]

may be missed banging u

[Asker]

The ex? Why do you think so? He’s the one that dumped me.

[ashish804]

may be thought he can get any better but didn't got or miss the way u get fucked by him

[Asker]

We never fucked though

[ashish804]

may be miss the chance to bang u

[Asker]

by the way why do you think it’s bot coincidence?

[Asker]

Not*

[ashish804]

because in the many following.. he opened ur only by coincidence?

[Asker]

So you don’t believe that it was coincidence?

[ashish804]

next to impossible

[Asker]

Why isn’t ex viewing my stuff from his own account?

[ashish804]

because he doesn't have any another account to view

[Asker]

He does has an account

[ashish804]

please dm me and we can talk more about it

[Asker]

I rather talk here tbh. Just answer this final question. Why would the friend use his friend account when he has his own instagram account?

[ashish804]

he didn't wanna know that he is still stalking u

[Asker]

Do you think he’s interested? Why would he otherwise stalk

[ashish804]

yup he is

[In_Trance]

It's not a secret if you're aware of it

[Asker]

What’s not a secret? Friend viewing my story?