Am I too insecure or people so mean?

[Anonymous]

My self esteem got hurt a lot in last couple of years. Then I self isolated. Now I feel like whenever I try to socialize, I get nervous, I felt like people are laughing at me and looking down on me.

Am I too paranoid or can people really feel I'm insecure?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Insecurities can make you percieve things differently, but mostly they make you care.
If you can work on swatting some of those insecurities, you won't only see how people react to you differently, but you also won't care if the reaction is negative.
You can't change other people, and yes a lot of them are mean, but you can change yourself.
A lot of people aren't mean though.
There's a lot of kind hearted, non judgmental people on this app, and there's a lot of douche bags, myself included lol.
It's just the way of the world.

If it makes you feel better about yourself, you sound like a really sweet girl who I would be nice to

[Asker]

Seriously. I get annoyed For examle, I'm 25. I was hospital today. Nurses calling me "you're a baby" I get professional service like I was like WTF.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Well that's unprofessional. No doubt she says to that to everyone though. Try not to take things personal, even if they're meant to be.
You're adorable, by the way. You can be proud of that, it's a trait not many women possess

[Asker]

How you know I'm adorable? Lol

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Call it intuition.
Or call it an observation based on how you text. Like your mind is racing trying to keep up with the emotions you're feeling.
I find that cute, I don't know.

[Guy13]

It is a combination of both. You'll toughen up soon.

[es20490446e]

People like people by default, no need to do anything special.

[Anonymous]

Nsh you're not just confident about yourself..

[Asker]

I'm 25 year old woman. Does it normal women their 35s 40s calling you "oh you're baby" "you're too young" It was like pitying. What the fuck I get professional service that I paid for

[Asker]

The nurses at clinic did that. They really made me angry