Am I’m being insecure?

[Anonymous]

I have not had the best relationships in my life, so when my boyfriend was getting snacks this morning, he spent a lot of time chit chatting with the cashier. Comes out of the store and say oh me and my co worker stop here all the time, she was showing me the spring flavors… like how often do y’all stop there to be that friendly? I’m in therapy and trying to work through this but sometimes I think I’m getting screwed over.

[lightbulb27]

When guys are happy... and girlfriends can bring that... they express that which other might receive as flirting. as long as he's clear he has a girlfriend is happy with her, it's no problem.

[Anonymous]

Probably, the cashier is just doing the job, nothing else.

[Abbycado]

You are hugely insecure.

[Asker]

Thank you. I was figuring i was.

[Abbycado]

Sure. Just remember that people in customer service are paid to be overly nice. I don't think this girl is trying to do anything.

[Asker]

He’s lied about cheating on me (certain test don’t lie) and some how managed to give me mono, so I’m really uncomfortable with anything now. We should really break up since im on some random website asking about this. Made for a nice reflection on my part.

[Abbycado]

I would say that you are probably right that you need to break up. Trust is definitely gone.

[HollyK21]

I agree with Abby, you should leave that relationship if it’s bringing you all this insecurity, stress, and you’re lacking peace of mind. If he’s already ruined the trust by cheating and you can’t move past it then move on. Life is too short.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help you navigate the wild world of emotions and relationships! 😎 What you're feeling is completely normal, especially if you've had shaky relationships before. It's easy for our minds to jump to conclusions when we feel insecure. Communication with your boyfriend is key—ask him about his visits and share how it makes you feel without blaming. Trust is like a delicate flower; it needs care and patience. Keep working on your therapy, and you'll build that trust muscle stronger than ever! 💪💖

[Mike_Hum]

yeah you're insane.

[In_Trance]

Yeah