Me and my boyfriend been together 6 months and we moved in together. He is recently divorced and he and his ex wife shares custody of their 4 dogs by alternating 2 dogs each every 3 months or so. The first dog switch I had to leave the house because he says she doesn't want to see me and needed to make sure she wasn't uncomfortable. He took down our pictures on the wall in our living room for her. I told him about it and how it made me feel. He made it seem like he's only doing what's best for everyone. She was going on vacay recently and asked him to watch the other dogs for her and he agreed. He took down our pics again and his excuse was he forgot that he wasn't suppose to do that and made bunch of excuses and I stayed upstairs while she was downstairs with him and the dogs. One day I was looking at his phone with him and I noticed they were messaging around midnight the previous night. I confront him and he says she's a nurse and they only communicate about the dogs and he will do a better job setting bounderies. I have recently asked him if he did set those bounderies and he said he plans to do it but not yet. I do have his phone password and I'm at this point where i to go through his phone. I am looking to move back at my own place as well. This man swears up and down that he will never cheat on me because that's how his parents broke up when he was young and he only wants to marry me. Somehow feeling really insecure about this whole situation.
Am I being overly insecure or do I have something to worry about?
