I like a guy but he is madly in love with a married woman from another continent. This had been going on for many years. He talks to her online a lot and says he holds her very dearly to his heart. He says he doesn't want to fall in love or date anyone else but only likes to mess around. He is also sad that he knows he can never have her. To me, this is probably the dumbest shit I ever heard. why would anyone quit dating just so they can dream about someone they can never have?
I asked "do you know you will miss out on so many things in life?" He replied "I'm fine with it".
It just doesn't make any sense to me. Are some people just too weak to move on?
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Okay, any guy who falls in love with a married woman is questionable to begin with. And that she is on another continent takes it up a notch to "don't get it at all". Part of me thinks that he chose her because it would be impossible to come to fruition. It sounds like a fantastic place for him where he can easily fantasize without Costs.
Secondly, part of me thinks he is simply running game. He wants sex without obligation or commitment. If you are pushing Relationship then this is his way of saying, friends with benefits.
Not too weak, just too stuck.
I agree with you: dumb. But they don't know and can't know it until 30 years has passed. And they might not even know it then.
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