Why do some people just give everything to a woman or a man… and get nothing in return. When there’s better out there…. They KNOW this and yet they won’t leave the person
Culture of "till death do us part", children, feeling of failure... There are many reasons. Maybe even hoping it could get better at some point if they try hard enough and doesn't give up. Love is strange🤷
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Some people think if they leave or dump the person, they won't be able to find anyone else.
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Judgement plain and simple. When you invest a certain amount of time with someone you feel guilty for leaving and others around you will remind you as well.
Honestly, because they want the relationship they have with the person that's giving them nothing in return to work out. It is true that they know they can most likely find something better with someone else, but the thing is, they wanted it to be with the person who ironically makes them miserable. I don't know. Maybe it's fear of letting them go. Maybe they've grown too attached to the person that they can't simply imagine life without them anymore.
Maybe because they would be miserable anyway.
It's like the divorcee neighbour of mine. She divorced her husband because she was miserable with him and knew that she could support herself and the kids as she had a good job and would get child support, alimony and the family home. She was happy for a while and dated a lot of great guys who were only intrested in a buck. Anyway flashforward 5 years and her ex husband is married to a younger woman and having his child, her kids now in their teens choose to go see their father more than she would like or control and she is more miserable than ever and regrets not appreciating what she had.Because of attachment... If someone is too attached with his/her partner , or one is in love with another , so they'd not think of getting seperated from their loved one. Despite of one partner being toxic and probably he/she doesn't love, may be it'd just be a tympass for the one... but the other one may have a lot of attachment n love. that's why.. they just try to bear everything and try every bit to make their relationship work despite the relationship being onesided. Because they can't handle the pain of seperation from their love and also there could be a fear of being alone.
People may remain in unsatisfying relationships due to:
fear of change
fear of being alone
low self-esteem
financial dependence
A belief that they do not deserve better or
belief that things will change for the better.
Investment, commitment, children.
I'm there.
I try to not be miserable...
Sometimes they just love being in a relationship. Sometimes they believe that they can't get or don't deserve better. Sometimes they don't know that what's out there is actually better, they see better relationships, but the problem with those is that the guy in those relationships is unavailable
1. Lack of Self-Esteem
2. Feeling insecure and a need of protection because being alone/lonely is something to be feared
I could make so many assumptions right now but these two are my possibilities
Not sure why someone would stay in a miserable relationship, it would just add so much more drama to your life. I am not interested in someone that complicates things. I lead a simple life whereby I try to focus on being positive. If someone complains constantly or is just miserable, I tend to get out quick. Not living my life being dragged down by someone else.
Fear of being alone. I, for one, would rather be alone than is a bad or mediocre relationship.
I've always wondered this. 😳 Makes me glad how I've remained single this long 😊😊🙂 sunshine's and rainbows merrily over here, no wife dramas and no girlfriend drama's, not even exe's 👏😁
because some people get to attached to easy and can't get out of it because they think that person might change or they are meant to be together
They’re scared. Men esp. sickening. Great question
Because they are used to it. It's like asking why don't you change jobs your miserable in. Or why don't you move house.
They feel trapped, or there might even be kids involved. Thinking they need to stay together "for the kids". I have a friend who did that for a long time. But the he hit her, and she was done
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Because they’ve had great times together probably and some things have made sense and they’re hoping to rekindle it. They don’t just want to throw it away because you’ll be more miserable breaking up then they will be together. They just need to fix their problems. Maybe take it to a professional relationship counselor
Often I think its habit more than anything else. Day by day it just seem easier to keep going, and hope that somehow things will get better, even when they know they won't
Afraid of being alone or not finding better. Low self esteem.
Honestly its because the fear being alone so much more than being miserable while still being with someone
Cause they can't find anything better and probably feel guilty if they left that person..
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