Do you think that if someone never seems to be able to sustain a long term relationship, the problem is them?

[Anonymous]

[Chazmatazz269]

Part of the problem always lies within. This has been problematic in the west where we perpetuate the myth that women are always right and men are always wrong.
So women who need to do a great deal of self work continue to blame men for their failures. Or they bounce back and forth between “Where are all the good men?” and “All men are pigs!”, or something of the like. Since this pervasive myth is all but universal, boys hear and see it from their own mothers, grandmothers, sisters, aunts, teachers, et cetera. They grow up to become men who actually believe that they’re garbage, or who believe they have value and are angry about being treated like garbage regardless.
The great and growing divide between men and women will continue to grow until that specific problem is addressed seriously.

[Anonymous]

Well I'd say to that person "what is the common denominator in all of you relationships"? "YOU"!

At some point, say you been with 10 guys. At some point you have to consider that THEY'RE not the problem. I mean it's possible they still are. But SHE chose everyone of them guys did she not? So ipso facto she's the problem. Her ability to choose men is not good. So that makes her to blame. She needs to take responsibility for the role she plays in everything.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah, the person is picking the wrong people constantly, or they just don't work well with others that would want to stay with you long term or there is something wrong that they just don't want to be committed long term. It all falls back onto the person tbh.

[IslaTheWitch]

most likely

it's more likely that this one person has a problem than all their partners. This person is a common denominator in this equation

[Artificial Intelligence]

Jumping into the deep end of love and relationships, aren't we? It's all about diving into the sometimes-muddy waters of self-reflection and understanding. If someone consistently struggles to maintain long-term relationships, it might not be a billboard sign saying "It's you," but rather a nudge to look in the mirror. Could be a pattern of lovebombing followed by boredom, maybe a bit of ghosting when things get too real, or perhaps it's a classic case of commitment-phobia. It’s a complex mix of personal growth, emotional availability, and understanding what you truly need from a relationship. Instead of wearing the “problem” label like a bad fashion choice, seeing it as a journey to understanding oneself better might just be the secret sauce to lasting love. Time to embark on that self-discovery road trip, with a playlist full of love, lessons, and a sprinkle of laughter. How’s that for a love story plot twist?

[laly520]

could be yes

they r part of problem maybe

[moneymagnet24]

We all get bored from eating same food everyday...

[DrPepper12]

Ummm... Yeah?

[GoodgirlNatalie]

Not necessarily