Would you suggest living together?

[Anonymous]

A little back story: He and I have a car together we've been dating for 1 year. I mentioned to him a month ago that my lease is up in April and I'm not sure if I will be given the option to renew it. Two of my neighbors have recently moved out. Last night he says his lease is ending next month and he will be moving two cities away. I do want to move with him but I don't want to impose. Would you suggest moving in together? Also how would you bring it up.

[ShiftingMonke]

If you two have a car together, how will that work out when he moves away?

[Asker]

We have 3 cars together, and I still have my car. So typically I have 4 cars the other two cars we are renting out to his friends. and he drives one

[ShiftingMonke]

Ah. Well.. in that case, I think a year of dating is a little fast to be moving in. But then again, moving away is also just as hard. If you trust each other enough to have a joint car, then you might as well broach the topic and see what he says.

[Asker]

You are right, He wants me to watch his son this weekend so I'm going to bring it up then before he goes to work.

[ShiftingMonke]

That's the best time to do it. Especially if it's before work; stress on "I'm just wanting to put this in your head" so he doesn't feel pressured to answer on the spot. Bonus points if his child likes you.

[Asker]

Exactly what I was thinking. I actually met his son last month and we hit it off. I'm actually really excited to watch him this weekend we're going to have so much fun lol

[ShiftingMonke]

That's the spirit! If his son asks him "can she stay with us?" You're basically in.

[Fanfare690]

Dont do it lol

[Asker]

lol It's a bad decision?

[Fanfare690]

Its up to you I'm sorry just have a discussion with him about possibly living together. See how he feels about your relationship together