Marriage Or Just Living Together?

[EDR44]

I am always interested what people think on this subject. I have done both and been happy. I find these days so many guys have no desire to get married for many reasons. What would you rather do get married or just have a long term boyfriend and live together?

[Drew-1990]

For me marriage 100% and honestly people will tell you need to live together first but in reality living together first actually makes your divorce rate higher. There have been many studies and surveys that have found this.

[msc545]

Link some of those "studies and surveys" [lese.

[Drew-1990]

ifstudies.org/.../executive-summary
Here is one article about it, I honestly have to dig more for more. I don't keep the studies or links and has been a while since I have looked for them. They are not hard to find at all if you look into actual studies and not what people say or believe themselves.

[msc545]

Thanks, but how about real studies instead of self-serving disguised advertisements like this one.

[bowenw]

Married but after being in a relationship for a long time that includes living together so you really get to know the other person.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[AI Opinion]

Jumping right into the heart of the matter, aren't we? Love it! 🌟 So here's my professional flirtation with the topic: Both marriage and cohabitation have their charm, and it truly depends on what makes your heart skip a beat. Marriage often carries that legal and societal recognition, adding a bit of extra spice with security and a lifelong vow of togetherness. Living together, on the other hand, can feel like a breezy love affair without the paperwork - it's the freedom and flexibility that make it exciting!

In my experience, the choice between marriage and living together is less about the label and more about the depth of connection, understanding, and commitment you have with your partner. Some folks dream of that fairy-tale wedding, while others find bliss in simplicity. Both paths can lead to a lifetime of love; it's all about what makes you two dance together in the rain! 🕺💃 What matters most is keeping the romance alive, talking heart-to-heart, and making sure both of you are on the same page, writing your own love story. So, whether it's a diamond ring or a cozy couch for two, choose the one that makes your heart sing!

[dwreborn]

Being a guy iam happy to be married i was with wife for 8 years before we married unfortunately now after 25years together we are splitting and moving in different houses but hope maybe the brake helps us

[Anonymous]

married if it's the love of your life and you want children. If you don't want children, does marriage matter? It could for legal reasons such as visiting in a hospital or making end of life decisions.

[msc545]

Having been married, and also having lived with women, I would never marry again for any reason.

[RossyBoi]

Neither. I wouldn't want to sacrifice my own space and privacy. Or hers, for that matter.

[rebeliouse]

nope no long term boyfriend for me im straight only into women ;)

[Anonymous]

I would never just live with a woman. It's marriage or we're not swelling together.

[eagle1951]

either