Does he eventually want to be with me?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I’ve been talking to this guy for a little over two months. We spend a lot of time together, we text everyday.. & I was a little surprised wen he got me a rose looking bear for vday. we’re planning on going on a trip in April which we’re both excited for. We both got out of a relationship with other people earlier last year. His ex of 8 years broke his heart & he has trust issues. He told me he doesn’t want to rush in a relationship because of that. We both agreed we like where we’re at now. But I eventually want to b with him. But I don’t know if he actually could see a future with me.

[MaazHussain]

It's difficult to say for sure what this guy's intentions are without more information, but it sounds like he enjoys spending time with you and values your connection. However, since he has expressed his trust issues and desire to take things slow, it's important to respect his boundaries and not pressure him into a relationship before he is ready.

If you want to know if he sees a future with you, the best way is to communicate with him openly and honestly. Ask him how he feels about the relationship and if he sees it going somewhere in the future. It's important to have these conversations so that you both have a clear understanding of each other's expectations and goals for the relationship.

Remember, a healthy relationship is built on mutual respect, trust, and communication. Keep being honest and open with each other, and let the relationship develop naturally over time.

[Anonymous]

Gosh it’s so interesting running into people in similar situations online. My current boyfriend was with his ex for 8 years and also got me a flower bear for Valentine’s Day and can’t come with me to Vegas in April because he has something to do lol. Of course I know it’s not the same dude but still, so interesting. Anyway it sounds like things are headed in the right direction but you could always talk to him about what he wants☺️

[Truthatanycost]

The question is whether people truly learn from their breakups by facing themselves and truth. Since this is very painful few, if any attempt to do so. They simply pause without thinking deeply and move on to the next person. If this is the case, then history may repeat itself. Also beware if they ever talk badly about their ex in anyway. Doing that even once is a sign...