Does lifting Weights and getting in shape make up for being 5’5 or will I still be invisible to women?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Don’t get too big as it will make you look shorter. 31 waist if under 5’10.

[lightbulb27]

Stay in shape yes, max 8 hours a week unless it's for fun.

The other 20 hours, work on your socialization, personality and engagement skills. Work on your dating skills and confidence, work on your confidence, and build your wallet, become your best man emotionally available but with strength and passion.

Then they can see you. Otherwise, they don't...

they don't care what shape you are and huge muscles are a turnoff to some especially if it looks like you are just into yourself.

[_piotr]

A man are ALWAYS invisible to women, unless they feel that they can get some profit from a relationship with him (money, protection, status, etc...)