If you're physically unattractive to women do you just give up?

[Anonymous]

28 and have never had any experiences with the opposite sex. Women dont want to get to know me and i can't help but feel that im just an ugly fucker. At what point do you just throw up the flag and give up?

[Anonymous]

I suppose it’s different for different people.


I’m unattractive to women. It seems like I have had almost nothing but bad experiences, and I don’t know if things are too far gone or not. I am at a point right now where it would have to be a very special lady to make me want to date right now.


The amount of work it’s going to take to get to a point where I can think about dating - that seems like another full time job in addition to a full work week.


I had to back off because of some family health issues. Lockdowns. All that took years.



I live in the middle of nowhere right now. Not much of a social life, and no singles in my area.



Have I stepped back? Yes. Have I given up completely? Hard to say, but no, I don’t think so. I WANT to date, but I’m just looking at all the work just to get “mildly” attractive. Some of it seems to border on the impossible. I do find myself more worn down from the work. I don’t know if I’ll give up completely just to focus on my job and myself. I’d rather not do another several years of that before I try again, but we’ll see.

[Guy13]

I assume you are making efforts to meet and greet others and not staying inside and counting digital time as "meeting people". If so then she will come around out of the blue and unexpected one day. I met my woman through a friend I made... knew for four months at the following website. Sports, Hobbies, etc. www.meetup.com Good luck with the women.

[Anonymous]

Why are you physically unattractive?
Sadly we go according to body shape etc. You have to know yourself to hunt according to what you can offer.. that’s the truth.
If you are 5’0 and obese you can’t really look up to a 5’7 skinny girl right?
Look into your community someone who’s close to your roots language religion etc.
Fiends can also vouch for you. Online dating. Focus on yourself too. Don’t think too much about it too honestly nowadays life is hard let things come as they are meant too be rather til you being scared. You can’t control the future. Let things flow

[Asker]

Women around my routes don't want me. I heard a saying that women date up, not down

[Opinion Owner]

I think you should do therapy love yourself then look for dating

[Asker]

Im still here. I didn't kill myself

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. I didn't give up, I just didn't try very hard anymore. But these women won't be young and attractive forever man. Around 40 thier phones stop ringing then the start chasing you. Then at that point it's up to you whether you want to reject them or not. Trust me man, it's coming.

[ShiftingMonke]

Don't sweat it bro; I look like a caveman and I found a wife. Just find a few good aspects of yourself, and highlight those. Work on your personality, as women care more about that as you get older. Even the best looks don't last forever.

[legalboxers]

focus on you. Focus on a job,