Guys, are there certain women's body types that are so unattractive that you absolutely will not date them?

[OlderAndWiser]

It is very PC and trendy to say that body type doesn't matter, it what's inside that counts, etc., but. . . for most guys, you are either atracted or you aren't, and you can't change what it is that you find attractive. My "ideal" is a petite girl with a slender body, proportionate boobs, and a not-large butt. That isn't a dealbreaker and I have been attracted to, and dated, women with other body types. Just the same, I do have my preference. And I absolutely will not date women who are more than 20 lbs overweight or who have enormous, pendulous boobs.

Is there a body type that is always, automatically disqualified from your consideration? If you wouldn't date two or three of these categories, please explain in a comment.

I won't date girls less than 5' (152 cm) tall

I won't date a skinny girl

I won't date a woman with small boobs

I won't date a woman with really big boobs

I won't date a woman who is "curvy"

I won't date a woman with a tiny butt

I won't date a woman with a really big butt

[ShadezMcgee]

Any woman that looks the size of Jupiter being morbidly obese. That is a hell no.

All the types here are ones I would date

[Avicenna]

Under 5'3, obese or anorexic are dealbreakers

[AviatorTom]

I would not date a woman who is grossly obese. That's an indication of other issues.

[zeitgeist057]

Um you forgot to add the option "No, I will date all those types" as I have and I will continue to do so. I think my least favorite is "curvy" (obese) or large butt, though the rest aren't even bad at all, I literally love a short girl, small boobs or large boobs they are all beautiful, same with butts (though again the line gets drawn but the pic you have for "really big butt", she is hot), or skinny girls, though anorexic is not a good look.

[KostasKouvalis]

I voted A, as from what you have on the list, that one's my biggest deal breaker as I prefer taller girls, but it still wouldn't entirely be a deal breaker as long as she's not a midget. I only wouldn't date a girl who either looked like a skeleton or was grossly overweight. Or a midget. Everything else is fine. I'm honestly pretty open minded when it comes to body types.

[OfMiceandMen]

I am good with all of the above body-types in your list. It would more so be if she doesn't take care of herself and completely let herself go. That is unappealing to me. If their trying to lose some weight that's fine, but the effort has to be there.

[ZackBan]

Fat women, in fact fat people in general, come with a baggage and set of disadvantages that makes me reconsider.
Mental stigma on body image
Health issues
Limited range of motion that makes certain activities impossible.
Low energy

The list goes on. As someone who was fat himself once upon a time and had to go through hell to get into decent shape I don't want anyone who's on the opposite journey

[Lliam]

I won't date a woman if I'm not physically attracted to her. I can definitely be friends with her but not romantic partners. Too tall, skinny, lean, curvy or thick is a no go.
I find symmetrical proportions like 32", 22", 32" or 34", 24", 34" ideal. I think similar proportions are common.

[Lionman95]

I think the only problem in that category I´d have is dating a woman that is way smaller than me since that´s uncomfortable to me. Anything else I don´t mind as long as she has a healthy figure. I couldn´t date a woman that´s just eating fast food or many sweets over the day.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I'd say absolute extremses like anorexic bodies or severely obese.

Although my preference remains of toned, well developed bodies, I wouldn't turn away someone because they have small breasts, a saggy butt or one of those little flaws everyone has.

[snackthatsmilesback]

These are all so fucking tame. I wouldn't date a woman who gave herself permanent demonic features like a big hex tattoo or surgical horns or fangs or fork tongue. Specifically demonic or dark, monster shit. Not like a stranger things tattoo or a fork tongue like "ooh I look like a lizard."

So I don't know what ur on about being 1 lb more than ur "overweight" limit = permanently undateable. That's wild. That's rlly such a big deal, 1 more lb and her attractiveness just vanishes from ur eyes? Can't imagine.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. Can you please pont out where sad something about being 1 lb overweight?

2. The question is not about deal breakers in general. It is about body type. That is why there is nothing here about tattoos, etc. If you want to discuss deal breakers in general, feel free to post your own question on that topic.

[snackthatsmilesback]

U said more than 20lbs overweight. Which means 20 lbs is fine. But 21 lbs is "absolutely not" so ya 1 lb makes the diff. No surprise. That comes w any exact weight limit.

If u just talking about body type, y u include weight? Body type is like, bone shape. Fat distribution. Not weight in general. "Overweight" is not a body type lol. Neither is "short" prolly. It's just like "hourglass" "box" "pear" n shit like that. Can be a tall Fat pear and a short skinny pear. So okay, then if u not talk about appearance in general n just body type, then I have nobody I find unattractive.

Preference, i prefer similar to me bc we can do same shit n share clothes n whatnot. N if they have similar body type then also less likelyto relapse. Even by just poll option. This is silly reason to find woman unattractive. But I also just remember i may not be attracted at all so actually take all this w a grain of salt mayb lol My bad I keep forgetting. It must suck to have who u can enjoy being with so limited by "body type" huh. Hope u find someone who u like type n who like ur type too & personality n shit all line up then, whatever those odds. 💞 good luck on it

[oddwaffle]

There is the general "conventional" standards for men and that haven't changed forever. This goes from face to body.

In general, men prefer a "healthy" and "well developed" body. Full breast, wide hips, slim waist, slight fat but firm muscle.

Sometimes these get exaggerated by women focusing on one factor and go big on it. Really big boobs, Brazilian butt lift, thigh gap... etc.

[RavVid]

I don't like big boobs or a buxom figure. I'm you coach! I like the elfin figure and smaller boobs you can cup but nonetheless have large erectile nipple.

I like to say that if a girl has a good waist everything else takes care of itself. A good narrow waist is the acid test.

[slatyb]

You left out the most common reason: I won't date a woman who is obese.

[OlderAndWiser]

I think "curvy" is a PC euphemism for obese.

[TheUniqueOne96]

One who's overly fat for her height, unless she was losing weight and I thought she'd be decent enough looking.

One who's way shorter than me (159cm).

[CuriousMufuxka]

She has to have a booty. Also amazing eyes. Long flowing hair, lovely legs, and nice smile are optional but greatly appreciated!

[OlderAndWiser]

I have never met a woman who did not have a butt.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Booty, my older and respected g@ger. AKA boody has a resonance of it's own, double over.. The cheeks clap with thunderous applause! A magnificent sight indeed :)

[OlderAndWiser]

All a matter of preference, "young" man! :) :) :)

[CuriousMufuxka]

Which also adds to your actual question :)

[Wade12345]

Obesity is a huge turn-off. I don't even glance at fat girls a second time. It's ugly and it's a sign they really don't care about themselves either.

[Anonymous]

I have my preferences, but none of the ones listed in the poll would stop me from dating a woman if she was a good woman and I was attracted to her.

[OlderAndWiser]

OKay, but that's the question. Are there any of these choices to whom you are not attracted in general?

[Opinion Owner]

In general, I am not attracted to "curvy" women, women with really big boobs or big butts. Also not attracted to super skinny women. But again, none of those things are show stoppers for me if she brings other important things to the table.

[BCA6010]

Regarding all of these examples, I don't care about height, and I don't like extremes in any other category.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Big fat obese women being a no go zone are pretty much the only standard that cuts the options down by 95%.

[virtue2332]

It is whats on the inside that counts thats first and foremost a fact. Its just a bonus when those insides are arranged so that they create a figure that natural selection has shaped what we deem appealing. Its crazy how we value fat or muscle in some regions over others and how much it can influence the chemicals our brains produce when those proportions meet or come close to what we deem apealing

[DaveToo]

Welp, you barely touched on one but not the one that would shut me down entirely. If she needs a tugboat to help move her around, that's a no for me. I understand that some women and men can't control their huge weight, but I'm sorry, I can be your friend, just not a romantic friend.

[misogynistic_pig]

I won't date a woman with a really big butt

[Daviddd5412]

I think a tiny butt would be the biggest turn off for me.

[exitseven]

I do not consiuder any of these a deal breaker. If she was nice and liked me I would date any of the above. If I was not already married of course.

[worldscolide]

All of them are fine by me. My only requirement is no land whales. Meaning if she is morbidly obese im not interested.

[Alchemizt]

I won't go for them if they are obese, got a fake big butt/boobs from surgery, too many tattoos.

[Massageman]

If my wife would let me date, I would definitely eliminate the "women" with penile shafts.

[Anonymous]

Morbidly obese. Besides that there is no unattractive body type and they are not deal breakers to the vast majority of men. For body types there are only those that are more attractive than others but none unattractive unless really fat.

[Opinion Owner]

The girl with the big boobs is Tye Thornton or Katie Thornton.

[Vick2828]

I accidentally chose I won't date girls with big boobs, lol, but I would date girls with big boobs or any type of body if she makes me happy. Big boobs is just a plus.

[Fireguy17]

I just don't have a boob fetish, so bigger is not better.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

A woman who has fake boobs I won't date her