🏆Should I become the ‘top of the top’ to find a good, very beautiful girl?

[Anonymous]

Is this what I must do? Work so hard God is proud of me and blesses me.

I must hit the gym hard and develop physicality, I must get as rich as possible, I must become as confident, charismatic and charming as possible, I must get cool interests, I must develop high social status. I must develop good style and groom myself so well.

I need to be the BEST competitor to secure a beautiful girl for a long married life.
A girl just needs to be pretty and sweet, a man must have so much more. I need work so hard. It might take 6-12 years but it’s worth it.
Don’t forget:

• Only 40% of men in human history procreated whereas 80% of women did.
• Social media has created an ultra hyper competitive environment where super high up men message 1000s of pretty women each in random villages. She’ll feel like a queen when she’s 20 and not done anything with her life. Women get endless attention, a girl can be rude and still get a guy. This is true.

I agree - just work so hard on yourself to become that guy

I disagree

Not sure

[Guy13]

I do not think you understand God, grace, mercy, judgment, and Sin as there is no good in you and your best deeds are but filthy rags covered in sinful heart and intentions. God is not a commodity where He exchanges your Wants for your Good Deeds. You are treating your Creator, God as a Vending machine.

God will not hear your prayers with a heart like this. Seek God first and all good things will be given to you (Bible verse).

[Anonymous]

Do all of that for yourself and God, not for women or anyone else. When you discover your life purpose you will probably enjoy life so much you'd enjoy being single anyway. But if not, you will already be more attractive and women will be interested in higher numbers.

[rachel776]

the most average guy can get the most amazing girl. it's all about chemistry

[AnonGiraffe]

The truth is the woman you choose will be beautiful to you. Pick a woman based on her qualities as a person, partner, and mother and not how she looks. You’ll live a happier life longer. If you become “that guy” and pick the 8/10 girl with 10/10 qualities she’ll love you forever compared to the 10/10 girl with the 5/10 qualities. 10/10 girl will expect to do nothing and have you provide everything via money.

[Anonymous]

Yeah if you want a pretty one, it’s rare to find one that is pretty and doesn’t care what you do. They know if they look good they have their pick of successful men but that’s all they have to offer and it won’t last as they get older but your success should so you can get whoever you want again

[exitseven]

You don;t have to be that hardcore. You should try to be the beat version of yourself as you can.

[Asker]

I mean you lived in a much easier world to us youngsters. You were very lucky. This generation is very damaged

[exitseven]

In a lot of ways it was no bed of roses. The rules have changed but the game is still the same. You don't need to be a millionaire and you don't need to be a movie star. You need basic decency, some ambition and intangibles like compassion and a sense of humor. If that is not enough for some girl then she is not worth your time.

[rabbitzzz]

No, but an escort might give you some time if you spend enough money when you are old and rich. Then she gon go use that on her young broke boyfriend she loves.

[KrakenAttackin]

"beautiful" girls are much more trouble than they are worth.

[Adaeva]

Top guys are born.

[Asker]

Actually no. Men are born with basically no value. Women are born and magically grow and have value

[Adaeva]

Both men and women can have value but men are far more expendable than women. If 90% of men die, women will have just as many children so the population recovers in a generation. If 90% of women die, it takes 4 or more generations for the population to recover.

Average women can't marry men in the top 10 to 20 percent, but they can have sex the top men. Therefore, smart average looking women will marry a good provider but when ovulating will have sneaky sex with men superior to their husbands because having the genes of a superior man benefits their children.

[Vegasrunner]

@adaeva It's because it's difficult for an average woman to retain a top 10% Man.