How do you become a girl's top priority?

[SeanMc6]

Basically I just want to know how a guy becomes a top priority in a girls life?

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+1 y

Girls what makes you make a guy a top priority, maybe that's a better way to phrase my question.

[Dollface-86]

The only man I will ever make in my top 3 priority list is my future husband. But if you want to be ONE of a girl's top priorites, then make her your top priority. We get taught (and I agree) that as soon as you put EVERYTHING into a man, he can let you down, betray you, lie, cheat, and the list goes on. I will never make a man my everything, but he can be close. If you want a woman to treat you like a queen, you must treat her like your queen. And you only do that when you have spent ample time getting to know each other.

[udolipixie]

How do you become a girl's top priority?

Perhaps by pursuing a traditional, conservative, misogynistic, emotionally/mentally unstable, or insecure gal as in my experiences they tend to have their lives revolve around a guy as they consider themselves worthless without one.

[Anonymous]

Find a girl who feels that way about you and treat her as well as she treats you. Trying to force someone to fall for you never works -- finding someone who is attracted to you and values you from the start makes it much easier.

[drjohno]

This is a very complex question, not easy to find a simple answer. I guess the main idea is around being the one who can offer her what she really craves in her life. This leads to the follow-up questions What does a girl really need in her life? Problem is women can tell you what they think they want, but what they actually need and respond to is something totally different.

[Moloch]

You either are or you aren't. Top priority is influenced by how much they care about you, and you can't just make someone care about you.

[Gimey]

Be the settler. Most girls will want to at least feel like the reachers.

Also this is a cliche probably, but most girls, like guys(?) answer best to being ignored after an initial date, IF the girl is into him. I don't think that this makes a guys still top priority, but at least they're on her mind a lot, making her do stupid things. There's a risk here, as these kinds of girls usually leave after they get what they want, because they like the game.

The most solid way to become a top priority is to act like a settler, making someone work for your attention.

[Anonymous]

That makes you sound kinda needy

I guess if I'm in love and have his children he'd be the top priority, but other than that,I have work, school,a life...he's gotta be really really special for me to make him number one.that's not a privilege I give to just anybody

Oh it's easier to be a girl top priority if you date down.like if you're an 8, date a6

[SeanMc6]

I get what you're saying. I agree with the school, work, etc. Those are somethings that are important to me as well so when I say top priority, I mean after all that.

This may sound rude, not to you but to this girl I was interested in, she's not that hot(I liker her personality) and I've honestly dated more attractive girls

[britannny]

Well, you can't be just ANY girl's top priority. You have to find the right girl.

Then it's easy.

Although you shouldn't go into a relationship expecting to be that person's number one priority.

[SeanMc6]

I understand that it has to be the right girl but I'm asking in more of a general way.

[britannny]

All of the obvious clich?s, basically.

[RedSmartie]

Depends on the girl. I personally will never make a guy top priority unless I've been with him for a long time and am planning on marrying him. Then there are some girls who will make a guy top priority before they're even together.

[britaygam]

If he can treat a girl with respect, is honest, and makes her a top priority.

[SeanMc6]

I've tried that and was honest with her...didnt matter to her. if anything she was the shady one

[PricelessPearl]

For one.. no man will ever be my "top" priority.

God first, then man.

[Anonymous]

Be awesome.

Date beneath yourself.

Let her pursue you.

[Afiya12]

First you have to know the girl then see what's important to her then do the rest from there

[Catvshuman]

If I'm his top priority

[Anonymous]

give her what she wants and more.

[Anonymous]

Be there for her and act like you care.

[JustGorJess]

ignore her.