Would a man hug/hold you to sleep if he didn't like you?

[Anonymous]

all night and would pull you back to hold you

[Mansearching]

My girlfriend and I were sleeping at my place and we spooned and my hand was on her breast most of time till she turned over. She didn't try to move my hand. She put her hand on top of mine through blanket and her shirt. Inter locking firgers sort of. We both are toss and turn type people anyway. But i can usually spoon and put my had anywhere i want. Same as she, if im laying there (on back) and she rolls over laying on me, she usually places her hand on my junk. It just sits there. She may play and rub head a little but that's it. Or she rubs my chest.

So it's a give and take type thing. If he wants to hold you all night, enjoy while it lasts.

[Asker]

so can you hug a girl to sleep without having feelings? it's been many times

[Mansearching]

All my o-n-s we just turned and over afterwards. Or my short term relationships we did cuddle but that's it.

[Guy13]

He likes holding you and the skin-on-skin but that does not mean that he wants to date and marry you. That being said, it is rare that a guy holds you to sleep. There is something going on there.

[Asker]

can you tell me what is going on?

[JosyJosy]

He has to somewhat like you to be sleeping in the same room in the first place. Or he put a rear naked choke on you.

[SnowedIn]

I don't think he would. Expressed or not, unless there was some mitigating circumstances -- your mom just died or you were trapped in a cabin in an avalanche -- I don't think a guy holds you to sleep unless there's some flavor of attraction.

[Asker]

True but he gives me mixed signals and then he’s mean to me for no reason we’re dating

[SnowedIn]

Those are also classic signs a guy likes you. Granted, they are signs that belong in middle school, but signs nonetheless.

[Asker]

Recently he’s been really mean to me though. I don’t know what’s going on

[Asker]

And then he asks me why I didn’t talk to him

[SnowedIn]

Very strange.

[Asker]

Yeah men are confusing lol

[SnowedIn]

True statement!

[Anonymous]

Define "like"

[Asker]

attracted to and have romantic feelings for

[Opinion Owner]

Yes.

[Opinion Owner]

Obviously I wouldn't do it if I was dating someone though out of respect for her. I mean my partner might misconstrued that so I would just avoid the problem altogether by not doing it.

[Asker]

yes as in they would do it if they're not attracted or have romantic feelings for?

[Opinion Owner]

Yep.

[Asker]

oh i see, because i wouldn't hug a guy i didn't like to sleep.

[Opinion Owner]

I'll hug anyone I care about.