After my breakup, I heard from friends how my ex will be part of hhis best friend's wedding?

[Anonymous]

And the couple only dated for a few months. Is he trolling my friends to mess with my head even though he doesn't want to talk to me

[HollyK21]

Maybe I’m missing something, but why would it matter if he’s in his best friends wedding?

[Asker]

I don't know my friends told me when he got off the phone and told them what's going on in his life

[HollyK21]

Hm, well not saying this in a rude way at all but I don’t see how this news would be trollish or even really note worthy. Maybe something more pivotal, like he’s taking so and so to the wedding or even if he were trying to get married himself lol. But just to be featured isn’t really a big deal, I wouldn’t think more about it.

[HollyK21]

Like why would it be messing with you or to get in your head, you know? That’s all I’m saying really.

[Asker]

I think it bothered me because he wasn't sure about marrying me for dating 3 years and his friend dated for less than a year and already getting married

[HollyK21]

I understand feeling bothered about not getting married but still, him being in his best friends wedding has nothing to do with it. Totally unrelated.

[Asker]

To me it made me regret dating him and it made me upset

[HollyK21]

I think you were already dealing with those feelings, hearing about the wedding was just a trigger. You have a lot of pain within you to deal with so you can move forward.

[Guy13]

Why would being part of his best friends wedding concern you?

[Wise4myage]

Is you're name Karen?