Why does it come off as desperate if a woman ask a man out?

[Anonymous]

[Adam1978]

It's how she does it, not that she does it. Same as there is desperate approaches for men and acceptable approaches for men.

[SnowedIn]

I don't think it does. The situation and how the ask is asked determines if it's desperate.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't. It's just something some women say.

[Anonymous]

The only people I've ever heard say that were women.

[riverrat3]

Only if the man is shallow