Is It Bad that I'm Not Attracted to Person Over the Age of 30?

[Shiningtempest]

I am asking this question since I am wondering why is it bad that I don't want to date a person over the age of 30. All else equal, I'd rather be a bachelor than date a person over the age of 30.

[quaranta]

It's not bad, you can't force your preferences, but you can be open minded to give yourself a chance about that, so that if a 30+ years old woman comes along, you might first know her better or observe her better before taking the conclusions, also because chances are you probably got attracted to some random women who were 30+ but looked younger and you didn't know their ages.
I'm pretty sure your attraction meter doesn't thave such a strict number, where if a woman is 29 is cool but if in a month she turns 30 she becomes bad, but rather some traits that you don't like, which are more likely to be found in more mature women, but not necessarily and not all together. You may investigate about what are these traits, these reasons, that put you off. (And you can find those reasons on late 20s too, most likely).
Of course you can put a rule to yourself to not date 30+ women, your requirements are valid and doing selection is just healthy, but you're cutting off potential partners who maybe are compatible with you but because of this rule on numbers you miss the opportunity. But it's up to you afterall...

[Shiningtempest]

@quaranta I am willing to cut off potential partners who maybe are compatible with me because I am not attracted to person over the age of 30.

[quaranta]

Well that is fine then, you accept any loss from that decision based on numbers, nobody is coming to your home forcing you to marry a 30 years old woman afterall...

[devilish-cutie]

its prejudice, you couldnt even tell some women are over 30 . I have coworkers younger 8 years than me that look older than i lol

[Shiningtempest]

@devilish-cutie I don't care if you believe its prejudice. I am not attracted to a person over the age of 30.

[devilish-cutie]

you are not attracted to someone over 30 cause some people will look younger than their age. you choose to not want to be with someone over 30 cause you have prejudice about a person that is over 30 thinking that being over 30 will mean xyz. It is bad cause its a prejudice, menaing you think that being over 30 means something that it doesn't, you'll get it when you'll be over 30

[devilish-cutie]

you are attracted to someone over 30 cause some people will look younger than their age*

[Shiningtempest]

@devilish-cutie Wrong, I will never be interested in dating a person over age of 30 no matter how younger a people could look.

[devilish-cutie]

Yeah i agree you won't cause of your mental reasoning that is based on prejudice. That doesn't mean that someone over 30 won't be sexually attractive to you even if you decide that is not what you want

[Shiningtempest]

@devilish-cutie It's not based on prejudice. It's subjective preference.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Because your shallow and dumb, just like the girls you're into

[Shiningtempest]

@WanderingLoveWizard I can't help it. After all, it's my preference.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol. No, I get it