Im banned from dating apps permanetly - how to find someone new?

[Anonymous]

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would creating a new number work?

[Anonymous]

If you have been permanently banned from dating apps, it may be helpful to reflect on the reasons for the ban and to consider making changes to your behavior or approach in order to prevent similar issues in the future. Some potential reasons for a permanent ban may include engaging in inappropriate or harassing behavior, violating app policies or terms of service, or using fake or misleading information in your profile.

If you are interested in meeting new people and building relationships, there are many other ways to do so outside of dating apps. Some potential options include:

1. Joining clubs or groups that align with your hobbies or interests, such as sports teams, book clubs, or volunteer organizations.

2. Attending events or social gatherings in your community, such as concerts, festivals, or meetups.

3. Taking classes or workshops in areas that interest you, such as cooking, art, or photography.

4. Asking friends or family members to introduce you to people they know who may be a good match for you.

5. Trying out new social activities or experiences, such as traveling, trying new foods, or attending cultural events.

Remember that building healthy and fulfilling relationships takes time and effort, and that it is important to prioritize mutual respect, communication, and kindness in all interactions. By approaching new social situations with an open mind and a willingness to learn and grow, you can create opportunities to meet new people and build meaningful connections.

[OfMiceandMen]

If you were banned from dating apps, you must have done something pretty damaging and/or border line desperate?

Considering, you're in your in a young age bracket, why don't you just take a 4-6 month hiatus, for your own personal health or seek help. Sometimes, trying to find someone can be an addiction.

[alice55]

How do you get banned from them? XD

But guess try another app or try real life or friend app

[Ms_Facesitter]

Heading outside and talking to people you find attractive!

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I'd love to hear the story behind that lol

You can meet people at work, bars, social gatherings, concerts, grocery stores, bus stops, airports... pretty much anywhere depending on your personality and bravery

[Heterosketero]

Its sinole, Match. com owns 95% of the apps and dont like people who dont have pronouns. Thats whatchapoend to me, but I live somewhere where apps are useless, so no big loss. Onetag tech is evil.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

That doesn't surprise me at all

[Heterosketero]

I complained to Tinder about users reporting me for not having pronouns or insulting me for my political views. Poof, banned from evrything within 72 hours. No response. Like I said to another poster, I live in northern Canada, nobody on those apps is 1000 milles from me in any direction. We get a lot of immigrants now, so I have the opportunity for cultural and romantic realtions, which I never have before. Still, as much as I love anyone who catches my eye and mind, please send redheads, and firewood.

[Nikki1989]

Nobody needs them. The whole world is one big dating site.

[SnowedIn]

^^^^^^^ THIS!

[Heterosketero]

Well said dude

[serious]

Was there any reason you were banned? I mean they must have given you some reason behind them banning you.

About finding someone new. I wish you best of luck for that.

[Heterosketero]

Shit, you too huh? I just saw tye otyer day that apps are in declibe and organic dating is seeing a revival post pandemic. Try Meetup. com to meet likeminded folks for recreation, see if you can meet someone that way.

[Gent207-2]

So what's the story and what apps did you get banned from?

For the record I don't count Tender, Grindr* or any other strictly sexual app as a dating app

[WanderingLoveWizard]

That's the thing about Tinder. It is a sex app, but when I went there for sex, all I could match with are girls who wanted a relationship lol
Just my luck

[Gent207-2]

@WanderingLoveWizard so how did you get banned?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I didn't get banned lol

[Anonymous]

If you got yourself banned from dating apps it sounds like you probably shouldn't be dating. I don't know ANYONE who's been banned from a dating app.

[JamesDiaz11]

There are always other dating apps, but you may want to figure out why you got banned and stop doing that.

[Heterosketero]

Very few not controlled by Match. com, whose algorithms puposely set people up on shitty prospects to keep them coming back.

[JamesDiaz11]

@Heterosketero You may be right, but when you believe that the "game's rigged" there's little chance of things working to your benefit. I've used dating apps for years, and I've had a good amount of success. I've probably hooked up with 30-40 girls the past 4-5 years using these, which albeit included a ton of crappy first "dates." I'm currently with a great girl who I met on Hinge (she's very attractive, and had zero miles on her). My ex was also very pretty, came from a good family, and we were together for 3.5 years. I had another very attractive girlfriend before her, which also came from dating apps.
The other thing is that there are few alternatives, unless you have a big social circle. After college there are NOT many opportunities to meet women outside of bars, which very few men are successful in.

[Heterosketero]

Used to use POF quite successfully, best dates came from that app. There are less than 45000 people where I live, which is nearly 3000 miles from the nearest urban center. So really, geology is not my friend, my friend. I am also not too concerned about being single, inflation is recession indenial akd I have a life to preserve against increasingly difficult odds; Not a good time to get into something. I am a natural loner amd live in the arctic for just that reason. So the apps were never a big deal to le, just trying to warn others, DATING APPS ARE RIGGED TO KEEP YOU COMING BACK, FAILED RELATIONSHIP AFTER FAILED RELATIONSHIP, ALGORITHMICALLY. IT IS THE BUSINESS MODEL. SAME AS YOUTUBE OR ANY POLLUTIJG ALGIRITH SABOTAGING OUR SOCIETY FROM ONLINE TO OFFLINE. DIGITAL EROSION IS MANIFESTING INTO OUR LIVES.

[Heterosketero]

Can you tell we get lag where I live lol? Sorry for the typos, they look like a tinfoil hat, if nothing else.

[JamesDiaz11]

@Heterosketero I don't blame you for checking out of modern society. I disdain the ashes of Western civilization, aka the post-modern era. Nothing is meaningful anymore. I grew up loving the (US) flag, and fought for it in some romantic gesture in Iraq (twice), as a US infantry Marine. But our women are largely ruined, and our society is degenerate. Not even love or sex have meaning anymore; so, one can rightfully ask WHY work, try to get married, and propagate, while becoming a wage slave until you die of cancer from the food, water, and environment they surround us with? Regardless, I do want to propagate as a giant Fk you to these people, and maybe my descendants will figure it out.

[Heterosketero]

Put it this way sir, you are trained for whats coming. So were Roman soldiers. I will stand with you when the rude awakening rises.

[SnowedIn]

Coffee shops and bars.

If you're in college, that.

[Heterosketero]

Cafes really for 12-99+

[VikingWarLord]

I've arrived, I'm your new DADDY now, so you don't need to look anymore any dammn way.

Send me a DM saying HEY DADDY I AM ALL YOURS NOW

[Heterosketero]

Can you get me Norwegian citizenship, Im yours baby. Like platonically. I have a legit Viking longspear.

[DarkLegacy]

I don't understand how you can be banned from all of them, they don't work together. Is it a court order for an offence.

[Jamie05rhs]

Lmao. All of them? How did you manage to get banned from ALL of them? 😂.
I want to hear this one!

[rabbitzzz]

Go to a shady corner with skimpy cloths and smoke cigars.

[Heterosketero]

I got cited for loitering, must be my ass cuz it ain't my face...

[slatyb]

All of them? Why? Just get another E-mail address.

[_Just_A_girl_]

what did they say ya did?

[msc545]

Why did you get banned?

[msc545]

I don't think you're going to get any straight up answers here until you explain why you got banned from every dating app on the planet. That only happens to scammers as far as I can tell.

[In_Trance]

Go outside and talk to people

[Heterosketero]

But rate them 1 to 10 first, then do a comparitive analysis with the street.

[Anonymous]

What? How did that happen? LMAO

[riverrat3]

How did you get banned

[Guffrus]

Whoring?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@Guffrus 🤣