And this, gentlemen, is merely another example of how men waste their times on pointless dates. You can get nothing out of it. It's about catering to a woman's vagina with nothing in return.
If a girl cried on my date, I won't be overthinking stuff. Rather I would comfort her with a hug. But if she wants to leave me, then I will wish her off with good luck.
@KrakenAttackin Lol, we had a boat trip, then we walked across the river, we bought some street food. And I took a day off from my part-time job to meet him. Why do you assume things that has happened in your past to be true for all the girls you dislike?
@KrakenAttackin He paid for the boat trip, I offered splitting the bill but he insisted, then he bought a street food that we shared, then he wanted to take me for a lunch and I told him I wasn’t hungry. I paid for his Taxi on the way back, cause it was a long way and I didn’t want him to pay anything else, because I already knew I wouldn’t be interested in further meetings and didn’t want to make him spend anything else.
It's alright to feel emotional about stuff like this but if you don't see a future in that relationship then it's better to leave now before it becomes more difficult to leave.
It would seem like she's going through something terrible, there's a chance you brought back the memory of such an event. Could be past trauma or loss of a loved one.
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You should be honest with him that you don’t like him that way. I think he was probably really touched that you cried at his sad memories.
Phew that's a massive bomb drop on a date. You stuck out till the end of the date though, for that you have my respect.
I doubt you crying will cause him to think less of you.
And this, gentlemen, is merely another example of how men waste their times on pointless dates. You can get nothing out of it. It's about catering to a woman's vagina with nothing in return.
If I was a boy I would think. "Dammit, what a drama queen... where is the door?"
You didn't. If he says that everything is fine then it is fine. Trust me.
My response to it would most likely be, "Oh shit... damaged goods. RUUUUUUN!!!"
You see this is why you don't show weakness when you are dating.
This fella has made this lady's eyes wet and her vajeen dry.
That is not the game.
If a girl cried on my date, I won't be overthinking stuff. Rather I would comfort her with a hug. But if she wants to leave me, then I will wish her off with good luck.
That's so heavy on a first date. No wonder he ruined it despite being cute. Things not to do on a first date.
I didn’t feel attracted
You just shot it in the foot right there. Should have told him no.
She was attracted to him picking up the check.
@KrakenAttackin Lol, we had a boat trip, then we walked across the river, we bought some street food. And I took a day off from my part-time job to meet him. Why do you assume things that has happened in your past to be true for all the girls you dislike?
And he paid for everything.
@KrakenAttackin He paid for the boat trip, I offered splitting the bill but he insisted, then he bought a street food that we shared, then he wanted to take me for a lunch and I told him I wasn’t hungry. I paid for his Taxi on the way back, cause it was a long way and I didn’t want him to pay anything else, because I already knew I wouldn’t be interested in further meetings and didn’t want to make him spend anything else.
It's alright to feel emotional about stuff like this but if you don't see a future in that relationship then it's better to leave now before it becomes more difficult to leave.
Don;t feel bad that you cried. It shows you have empathy and are a good person.
I would think it was sweet that she was so touched by the situation that she cried.
It would seem like she's going through something terrible, there's a chance you brought back the memory of such an event. Could be past trauma or loss of a loved one.
I and my ex fiance broke up and It was traumatic for me. Maybe that’s it.
You dumped you fiance.
@KrakenAttackin I dumped my fiance? Are you crazy?
I loved him the way you have probably never been loved judging how bitter you sound.
You feel bad.. you don’t like and came all the day to see you but had to deal with a lot.. and you feel like an asshole
I think that it brings a couple closer together when one of them cries and the other comforts them
It does, weird but yeah
Most men can't deal with women crying. They are weak in that department.
You go on the date and discuss death and suicide... Thats fucking weird... Next time try discuss something fun
I'd figure they were tears of joy at having met me.
It would be awkward if it were early on in the dating process.