What do guys feel/think when they see a girl cry?

[IsabelS]

I feel like my crush gives me so much stress and I'm at the point where I'm about to tell him. It'll just end it. And even though I think he might like me he's making it very difficult.
Problem is when I tell him how I feel, I feel like I'll start crying. Not like out loud but tears running down my face. It's been so much with these mixed signals and I have strong feelings for him. How is he going to feel though? I'm not trying to make him feel bad or anything but just to make him see how much he's hurting me by not telling me the truth.

[Crumbles]

This is interesting because I saw this girl the other day who was sitting by herself, she looked very sad and looked like she was about to cry. I almost walked up to her even though I didn't know her and ask if she was alright. If I saw a girl who I knew or didn't I would be concerned and ask if she was okay, also if there was anything I could do. You're not going to make him feel bad when you approach him, it's his job as your boyfriend to tell you that he loves you and to give you clear signals that he's interested in you. There's nothing wrong with being up front, it's what guys like because they know how you feel. Good on you as well! You should be strong and just come out and say it if you're worried about something, it'll only get worse. So just get it out there, he should respond by comforting you and saying that he really likes you etcetera. Just don't waste time waiting for days/weeks before you say anything. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be, if it isn't...

[IsabelS]

No he's not my boyfriend. I just have a crush on him. Take a look at my previous question girlsaskguys. com/flirting/q1436074-does-this-guy-like-me
Tell me what you think

[IsabelS]

Just add the http.//www. in front of the link

[Crumbles]

It sounds like (from your link) he's quite unsure of what to do. I think he wants to focus in on his school work especially because he's a senior, but the fact that he still looks at you means that he's still interested in you and isn't sure if he should should tell you how he really feels or keep his mind on his work. When he said "really, fallback, really?" He was probably trying to push you away, it may have hurt you and it may have hurt him as well! From experience, there are many times that I've been interested in having a relationship but sometimes that time isn't right (with school work etcetera). I think if you approach him again and just say how you feel and ask him if he cares about you as well. Maybe he's not texted back because you said you didn't have a crush on him anymore. You should be able to approach him and just straighten things out so your both not confused. It's okay to cry because then he can see what all this is doing to you and how much stress it's causing you.

[IsabelS]

omg thanks so much honestly! ☺ But here's the thing after I told him I didn't like him, I asked what would happen if I did like him. I asked if anything would change. And he said no it wouldn't make a difference, I'd still talk to you. This obviously hurt me cause if he liked me I don't think he would've said this or what do your say? You are a guy anyway! And I feel like he's trying to push me away. I don't know if it's cause he's not interested or he doesn't want to get attached to me?

[Crumbles]

It now sounds like he's a guy that's focused in on his work and doesn't want any distractions. Like I said, personallly there's times when it's literally been to busy for me to be in a relationship or even think about having one. Perhaps he likes you, but wants to focus in on his work for the time being. Who knows later down the track his work load might die down a considerable amount, so he might reconsider. Maybe works just really stressful for him at the moment? But just talk to him and say how you really feel, ask him if he likes you to. You don't have to go out etc, just say "when your ready, I'm ready" sort of thing.

[IsabelS]

Alright thanks a lot! 😃

[NateInAk]

Here's a conversation the two parts of my brain have:
COMFORT HER!
But there's stuff coming out of her eyes! It's weird!
COMFORT HER!!!
But I can't understand a word she's saying.
And there's still stuff coming out of her eyes!
COMFORT HER!!!
Now she's making some weird sound with her nose!
GODDAMMIT COMFORT HER!!!
*awkwardly pats her back*

[RationalLioness]

There is no way to tell. Guys your age may simply freeze, unable to know what to do next or they may feel awkward. Then again, he may hug you and make you feel okay.. lol.

[harakiri]

I want her to stop crying. So I'll ask what's wrong and try to help.

[Anonymous]

They think "Oh man now I have to stop her from crying"

[zorro8888]

What he's going to feel/think is awkwardness.
What he "might" do is either hug you or pat you on the head... who knows.

[Klaatu51]

i'd asker "y do u cry?" basically...

[Outofthegrey]

Uncomfortable.