How do guys feel when they see a girl crying?

[ElizabethBiersack]

And it wasn't his fault. She is crying because of something else that happened

[K1ll3r98]

if she is my friend. i will give her a hug and tell her she is okay and comfort her. if it is a stranger, then i would just sit down an try to see if i can make her smile. if any girl wants to talk about it, i would happily sit there and listen to what they have to say and try to comfort them even more with my responses to things she says

[ElizabethBiersack]

MHO for u

[K1ll3r98]

Thanks :) but what did i say that made you like it?

[ElizabethBiersack]

That u would try & help a stranger

[K1ll3r98]

that is just natural human nature. isn't it?

[ElizabethBiersack]

I think a lot of guys would just look and not attempt to help

[K1ll3r98]

in my eyes, the are just assholes. and anyone else who reads this. feel free to fuck off because i don't have time for the haters

[ElizabethBiersack]

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[GoodManDave]

Fake? Real? Do I know this girl? Either way... awkward. I want to help or say something, but when it's a stranger, I really just feel awkward; I don't know them or their situation, so I can't really offer advice or say much of anything without being the guy who "butts in."

[apple24]

I am one of those girls! I once saw a guy crying in public and wanted to help but I just couldn't make myself go! I felt so bad and I know how it feel when you want cry and be left alone in public. He had someone else with him so, I left. I got really upset though. I don't like when guy cry it make me cry.

[pinkbubble]

when i cry i can barely talk , once i cried cuz of my boyfriend and i got out of the house he followed me and he hugged me so tight from behind and wiped my tears while i tried to make him let me go lol but couldnt , i think any girl would want to behugged while crying :)

[Homicidal_Queen]

They usually have no idea how to react or help. Guys usually be like *throws tissues.* or yell "I THINK you're PRETTY. STOP CRYING." or just slowly hands them chocolate.

[Conrad_Kelsiven]

You mean the 'bomb squad' approach? Just slowly slide the chocolate over, from as far away as possible (preferably with a stick) and then run as soon as it is in place. With any luck she won't chase you down and rip your head off.

[Homicidal_Queen]

@Conrad_Kelsiven That's only if she's on her period and handing the girl a dog always works

[Mesonfielde]

Well that sucks for her but it is not my concern and there is nothing I can do about it so I just carry on doing whatever I was doing

[Randomguy8182]

If it's a friend or family member straight away confort them, try to make sure their ok, just hug them and tell them it will be alright etc

If it's a random girl tho I won't try to comfort her unless she is on her own, that sounds creepy but hear me out, I'm not gonna walk up to a group to check if she's ok but if I was walking past and she is sitting alone cryin I can't just walk away and leave her to cry I would at least check if she's ok and then see her reaction would dictate what I do next whether I try to comfort her or walk away

[Applefan1]

It depends on the girl and why she is crying. If the girl is always mean, nasty and bitchy to everyone around her then I don't care if she is crying she can just go cry in a corner by herself. If the girl is only crying to get her own way with something then I will just ignore her, there is no way manipulation will work on me. However, if the girl is a nice, kind and caring girl and is genuinely upset I want to take her into my arms and hold her tight.

[ElizabethBiersack]

Even if she was a random girl that u didn't know & u were still in high school

[Mistnigqa808]

I don't care 1 bit if and when I see a girl crying unless I can see blood dripping down her arm or something other than that Imma just keep walking i1127.photobucket.com/.../ezgif.com-add-text.gif

[Mistnigqa808]

I don't care 1 bit, if and when I see a girl crying unless she has blood dripping down her arm or something else. If not Imma just keep walking *

[Northeast106]

You know your lying, you swoop in and comfort them, and use your ninja skills to get right to her heart.

[Northeast106]

Naw but I've been made the same way though. I've just known too many women personally who cry for zero reason. It's like when you hear kids cry all the time, it's just what they do.

[Mistnigqa808]

@Northeast106 " I've just known too many women personally who cry for zero reasons. It's like when you hear kids cry all the time, it's just what they do." That's what they do WHILE expecting us to "comfort/go easy on them" because they're "vulnerable" like naw... bump that they can fend for themselves... MFs may call the cops on me anyway for even touching them so yeah... F that *teleports away*

[AleDeEurope]

If I care for her, I would be worried and most likely go up to her and comfort her.
If I don't know her or don't care about her, I would wonder why she's crying, but it wouldn't cause any emotion on me.

[ElizabethBiersack]

Ok makes perfect sense

[Illusive_Man]

A very calm and collected holy fuck holy fuck holy fuck holy fuck holy fuck
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[pervertedjester]

Usually I feel like I need to stop this crying! Look I can do Shadow Puppets creativeaction.org/.../ShadowHands.jpg

[ElizabethBiersack]

Oh my lord lol

[pervertedjester]

It's more of a last line of defense for crying but I will use it if all else fails. lol

[ConsultantIsBack]

tbh, YES. I hate hate hate seeing girls cry. Male instincts to hold and protect kick in.

That sounds so white knight I know, but whatever, it's true.

[justbanANNAz]

that's so adorable =]

[RedAmulet]

I'd go over to them and ask if they are OK and if I can help. If they don't respond then giving them a hug is what I would do :)

[RedAmulet]

I would try to comfort her in anyway I can and try to make her feel better and stop crying.

[ElizabethBiersack]

Thank you for the answer

[PizzaGuy22]

if the girl is a hypocrite, trash talker, and calls other girls bitches/hoes/thots despite getting knocked up at age 17 I'm gunna laugh at her ahaha

if she isn't like that I'll feel bad and something stupid like "are you alright" even though she isn't haha

[ElizabethBiersack]

Ok hahah thank you

[Anonymous]

Now, I would feel bad for them, I probably would talk to them and try to make them feel better, but my issue is, I can't comfort people, I have no sympathy at all for some reason, it's a curse. I can't help people, I always find the reason something happened, and once I know, I have no sympathy. That simple :(

[Anonymous]

Mind:
- Mind your own business fool! She probably wants to be alone right now, so give her some space!

Peelings:
- Aw, she had a bad day. Why don't we go over and and ask her how she is

Stomach:
- Ain't nobody got time to listen to her problems. We have to eat.

[JuicyBrain]

There is an overbearing urge to make it stop by doing anything that can be done to fix the problem that caused it. It's like an instinct.

[Doffydood]

*Comfort mode engaged*
*Run: shouldertocryon. exe*

Honestly it doesn't really matter if they're a boy or a girl, if someone is crying I'm going to ask if there's anything they need from me :)

[sinful1620]

I used to care. Women beat that out of me. I see women crying now as nothing more than an attempt at emotional manipulation.

[FootballandFood]

I generally have no idea what to do. I feel pretty awkward. I usually go stand by her and rub her back or something. I'm really bad with crying people.

[Allway]

It is really bad to see a girl crying , all i want to do is to comfort her specially if she is someone i know.

[ElizabethBiersack]

Thank you for ur answe

[Allway]

My pleasure :)

[Insecure1636]

Awkward. Guys have a hard time being the shoulder to cry on and are not very good at consoling others.

[Anonymous]

that would make me so sad, i dont care if she is a mean person or anything, i just feel like giving her a hug.

[ElizabethBiersack]

That's so nice. Thanks for the answer

[JCT666]

I would have to really care about the girl a lot to ask her if she is okay. Because if it doesn't involve me, I'm minding my own business.

[Killer-Queen]

Some guys care, some don't. My ex said he can't deal with crying and doesn't know how to handle it.

[Applefan1]

Some guys are like that, they don't know how to handle a crying girl. I personally have been told I know very well how to make a girl feel better. :)

[Killer-Queen]

@Applefan1 Well, that's a great quality because there's nothing worse than having a partner who can't comfort you to stop your tears or simply not be the reason for them in the first place...

[Applefan1]

Yeah I once held a girl when she was upset and just as I thought she was done I let my grip loose a little and I felt her pull me into her more and thought ok she needs to be held longer so I tightened my grip again and gave her longer in my arms until she was done.

[Killer-Queen]

@Applefan1 Yea, I know that feeling just needing the person to embrace a little longer. It makes such a difference.

[Applefan1]

Yeah, that is why I did it. I thought she needed it so I will help her out and give her a bit longer and let her pull away when she is done and that was what I did.

[Killer-Queen]

@Applefan1 That's kind - it's feelings like that that make me wish I had a kitten in my life. I'll never let go!

[Applefan1]

Yeah thank you. Actually cats can really be comforting things. It has been proven that cats are good for human health. They reduce stress and calm people down. Contact with cats I think has been said to realise something into the human body that is good but I am not sure what it was now.

[Killer-Queen]

@Applefan1 Serotonin and dopamine :3

[justbanANNAz]

id hope he'd just wanna hug me or get me a tissue lol. sometimes when I'm crying i just can't speak.

[Applefan1]

That is the sort of thing I would do. I have found that girls don't always want their problems solved for them that sometimes they just want someone to hold them and reassure them that everything will be ok.

[justbanANNAz]

yeah i feel like just being held and told it's gonna b alright would help me more in that moment than trying to talk it out, which would make me more upset. @applefan1

[Applefan1]

Yes, I think for many girls if they want to talk they will talk later that you should just hold them and let them cry and calm themselves down a little first.

[complicated_soul]

Lol😄

[ConsultantIsBack]

Would hug
Would get her a tissue
Would cuddle

[justbanANNAz]

awww!! 😆
*hugs back*
*grabs tissue*
*sobs into shoulder*
@constulantisback

[blondfrog]

I'd probably not care unless I knew her emotionally then I'd talk to her in that nurturing voice and ask what was wrong and try to understand the situation. If it was something was actually bad that happened to her then I'd comfort her.

[QuestionMan]

Very annoyed.
I hate it when people cry it makes me uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

When I cry girls dont come help me, or comfort me so I am not going to go out of my way to comfort them. I feel nothing when I see a woman crying, everyone cries, its normal, she will get over it.

[CHARismatic110]

I'm a pitiful sight when I cry so I try not to do it in front of people. But I'd hope that he'd at least ask if I was ok.

[chrisbigman]

Horrible. It doesn't matter if it's my fault or not. I hate seeing a woman crying. Try listening to Joshua Kadison's "When a Woman Cries". That's good listenin'.

[YesPleaseThankYou]

It is human instinct to want to rush to and protect the higher pitched cry of women and children. It sets off a safety trigger in our brains. Think of it as a survival mechanism.

[zell0is0my0name]

Lol they panic, always. It's so fun!! Makes me want 2 put glycerin in my eyes just to see their expressions 😂

[ElizabethBiersack]

😂 do they actually

[zell0is0my0name]

Yeah they do 😂

[ElizabethBiersack]

Ok hahah thxs for ur answer

[SarahsSummer]

I'm not sure about guys but As a girl, I would want to help her.

[P-FloW]

This is not about gender. When i see one people crying i feel weird. I trying to help them sometimes.

[fondue]

I'd hope they'd just keep walking and pretend like they didn't see anything.

[RandomUsername3464]

I do my best to avoid her and the entire situation and leave the area as soon as possible.

[HighlanderTheOne]

I will show her that what she feels now is the worst she'll ever be.

[cinderelli]

they feel bad.. i think. or sad.. or maybe annoyed sometimes.. not sure..

[Anonymous]

If she isn't cute, then we treat her like any normal person. If she is cute... Super Sonic Listener Man to the rescue!

[MuyBien]

Would make me upset, and want to find out the reason why and resolve it. Don't like seeing anyone be upset.

[rahul6023]

i would feel bad about it and try to convince her not to cry... and will help her in resolving the issue if i can

[Someonesmartt]

They feel bad if they did some mistake otherwise they don't know what to think

[tayoker]

U mean like to get some attention? ... that would be obvious!

[TheOneLol]

I would feel like i want to take the pain away and care for her and make her feel better.

[RichardTheFrog]

Depends who it is...

I've seen girls fake tears...

[Anonymous]

I feel like slapping the shit outa her till she stops crying out of fear

[ElizabethBiersack]

Wow u sound like a charmer

[Opinion Owner]

Have no intentions of charming women..

[ElizabethBiersack]

Well that's just dandy

[Opinion Owner]

I'll teach you dandy...

[ElizabethBiersack]

Uh ok what is that supposed 2 mean?

[Dave-x11]

Bad probably, maybe ask her whats wrong.

[Omar5881]

It's something bad seeing a girl crying :(

[HikerDude]

If it's just a random girl, I couldn't care less.

[DJC110995]

I'd just want to help and comfort her

[Polocrew]

Won't really care lol I'd give them their space

[jmmmfi2]

I figure she probably broke a nail

[Anonymous]

I want to hug her and grind up against her.

[Phoenix98]

Sad probably.

[Avneo]

Overwhelmed.

[jacquesvol]

I feel helpless.