What makes you say yes to a date?

Question

Guys, what makes you ask a lady out? Ladies, what makes you want to go out with a guy?

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

If I get asked randomly on the street? Overall the first impression, how does he look in the sense of clean, style and face, how his is presences, demeanor and aura and do I feel comfortable saying yes.

Getting asked out by a dude that I have been talking to for a short while?
When I already talked to him for a while he passed the requirements above, so here it's only a matter of how the conversation went and If I'm interested in getting to know him better or just see him as some chill dude to talk to

AsaKyo · Accepted Answer

Aside from being emotionally manipulated when I'm depressed into going out with someone.. hmmm

I don't really know since I can't say I've ever went out on a real date where I've genuinely enjoyed the date itself and the company there

ObscuredBeyond · Accepted Answer

Agreeable personality, common faith, not hideous, common interests, willingness to have a meaningful conversation, actually shows interest in what I share, gives me the time of day... that's enough to get me at least curious about asking her.

Seems pretty minimal; but it can be hard anymore to find anyone who can meet that very minimal set of criteria.

When even that little is considered "too much work" for some, there's an issue at the societal level.

AffectionKing · Accepted Answer

If she seems cool and I would want to spend more time with her than I would do it. Or if it’s someone I haven’t seen in a while and we are trying to catch up with one another.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

The main thing for me is if he has good intentions and seems like a gracious and calming person. I value men based on how calm and relaxed they make me feel, not their status.

Avicenna · Answer

If she seems interesting and seems to have a good personality

coachTanthony · Answer

Connection, vibes, humor, life is too short to spend it with boring.

Guy13 · Answer

Small waist and Personhood Vibe.

shoujogal · Answer

If he will befriend  me first n be the best of friends! I've waited for him I think it's okay for him to wait for me too.  😄

Mewzinc · Answer

If he's a good person. I can tell when a guy is a nice person by the way they act naturally. I just know this guy will respect me and treat me right. That he was raised right and is a good man. It's a vibe and how he carries himself. How he talks and acts.

For those who are religious and get what I am saying but you can just feel the devil in some people. You can see it in their eyes and that poison and corrupt mindset bleeds out from them. I felt that a while ago from some creepy guy that was into me and it was a terrifying feeling.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

1. When the guy has confidence enough to ask me out.

2. When numerous mutual friends encourage me to say "yes" because they believe the guy is good for me.

3. When my initial impression of his personality before the actual first date is positive.

Lliam · Answer

1. I'm single and looking for a girlfriend.

2. I find her physically attractive and like her style.

3. Sometimes we have already interacted and I think she is fun and sweet. But other times, we don't know much about each other and I ask her on a date in order for the two of us to get to know each other a bit and see if we want to go on a second date.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

He has to be a good person and fun for me to want to be around them or somewhat trust him to be good. Like a friend. You get along. He needs to take good care of himself. Not like "rich job and all that jazz" but healthy, clean, presentable. He can expect the same from me. A close friend vouching for him always helps.

exitseven · Answer

This is hard to describe. I have always been attracted to athletic girls. But I have asked out girls that were not athletic and some were just the opposite. They had some intangible quality that I liked. In my mind I could envision myself being with them.

ChiTown33 · Answer

What makes me ask a lady out is genuine effort on her part. I have to feel SOME connection. I want to know it's me specifically she likes and wants to know better. Not that I'm just one of half a dozen guys she's considering. Serial daters are a big turn off to me.

Anonymous · Answer

. Me being insanely sexually attracted to him. Duhhh. I’m not gonna spread my legs to some inbred-looking degenerate.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

being open to making a friend if nothing else. i don't like being put on the spot with someone i'm unattracted to, but i won't say no.

Anemone978 · Answer

I would say yes to any date.. I just like to get out... and if it don't work out at least you make a new friend and maybe have someone to go out with and maybe meet other people with :)

RavVid · Answer

Got to be attracted for a start. I'd want her to have a nice girl persona and seem to be co-operative. I'd add in appreciative as I have noticed that couples I know that have the best relationship unfailing express appreciation to each other.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I trust my guts. So if I have a good connection and I have a good feelings from the few phone calls…I want to meet within 2 weeks. I don’t like to waste time or play text/phone buddy.

SnowedIn · Answer

I haven't had to go on a date in a quarter century but if I did. She's interesting and I want to talk to her. That would be the number 1 reason I'd say yes.

Still-alive · Answer

She seems to have a fun persoanlity from the moment i meet her and of course i think she looks cute. thats what will cause me to approach. then after their personality is what makes me want to stay

Nikki1989 · Answer

I look for personality and common interests.

molonski2 · Answer

I think connection is the biggest element , this then branches out in interests and the like , nature , professional life..

Chrysantenum95 · Answer

If we vibe together even at small things or small talk. In other words he is interesting and not boring

Adam1978 · Answer

I don't ask people out before I know them at least a little. So that is the first approach getting a bit of chit-chat. No asking them out on dates.

Cecinene · Answer

If he is someone that I love so dearly and also he should have a very good personality, manifesto and a high self-esteem.

JJ092003 · Answer

If he's got confidence but isn't cocky. It's a fine line lol

Labokachulaa · Answer

Respect, honesty, genuineness. Sometimes the way people approach you is all you need to know.

LovingJo · Answer

If I am physically attracted to them, they make me laugh and we have things in common and I want to find out more about them

alice55 · Answer

If he's physically attractive and don't seem like a douchebag I say yes

BagoH · Answer

If looks are fine then it's a yes. But if I notice red flags in personality I'll avoid it.

Jennz6 · Answer

When they ask me where is my favorite restaurant

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Attraction and common interests at the least.

Kelly6 · Answer

depends on mood, and if he's nice guy and asks nicely

KinksterJay · Answer

Being asked, that's what makes me say yes. I'm BI and I feel every single person has something awesome about them so I say yes to anyone who asks me out on a date.

smilelots · Answer

I would ask her out if i find her funny sexy easy to talk to ,

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

I seldom go out on dates, so of course I’d be glad to be asked out. Dating is fun.

Likes2drive · Answer

If I’m attracted to them, and if they are friendly

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Usually it's just being interested either by her appearance, personality or both.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I mean, if I liked the girl I’d ask her out its just I have yet to find a girl I actually like XD

Fabiloso · Answer

Honestly I'd say yes to any girl who actually asked me out as a dude like that stands out the most to me.

krin_m · Answer

Personality, self-confidence to start with. Physical attraction also.

Nik1hil · Answer

1) Good looking,  2) Less intimidating,  3) Approachable and good at communication

itsalyssaagain · Answer

If he’s cute and seems like an interesting person - not a creep nor a boring pereon

backdoorman · Answer

I ask a woman out if I'm attracted to her and I think there's a reasonable chance we have things in common and share similar values.

dragoblack · Answer

We actually have good mental chemistry. If i don't feel comfortable with her to talk about anything, why bother? You shouldn't ever feel like you're forcing yourself to date someone.

Iron_Man · Answer

Well, I first we don’t know the girl so it’s based on looks because we know nothing about her unless we go to school and know her

stratford · Answer

If I am attracted to every part of her being.

888theGreat · Answer

This

Guardian45 · Answer

Funny, intelligent, interesting, caring, "attractive" women

Jltakk · Answer

I don't ask women out personally. I just focus on my own problems. what would push me is my own life being ready for the next step.

Guanfei · Answer

If a girl asks me. That's probably 95% chance of me saying yes.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Looks If she's ugly I turn around won't even give an answer to her.

Amur8711 · Answer

I find her attractive and it seems like she has a sweet personality.

SweetTwistedSatanist · Answer

Chemistry. Just that. If we Can Hang We Can Date

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I have to like her and feel the chemistry.

Preeti161101 · Answer

Caring person 🙂

Fuentes · Answer

Don't do those

fonduegirl · Answer

I'm generally hot for any kind of artist

Zayed_ · Answer

An honest and a conservative woman.

lottiebannotie · Answer

Liking the guy

notwoke · Answer

she's thin and no bitchy

In_Trance · Answer

Her energy

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