I have been on 3 dates with a guy and did netflix and chill with him 4 times, no sex, just cuddles and kisses, did he make me a friend with benefits?

[Anonymous]

I dont know where I stand with him and I really like him. What is our status? And how should I tell him I want to be in a LTR? Thank you all

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Just let it play out naturally. If you move too quick on wanting to be long term, you could scare him off.
You're not his fuck buddy if you're not fucking, so don't worry about that.
When he's ready, he'll ask you to be his girl.
This could take a couple months. Certainly more than 3 dates

[Asker]

thank you, it's been 1 month now and we've hung out like 7-8 times I honestly lost count lol

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Nice! If he hasn't cut things off by now, he probably won't. Just take it slow and have fun 😊

[NostalgiaSenpi]

How is it a friends with benefits if you didn't have sex? Just tell him you want an LTR and invite him out to a date.

[chicosuave]

patience. why do you want to move it so quick?