Friends with Benefits from a guy perspective please?

[lovehim24]

Guys if you have a friends with benefits does that mean you have no feelings for her and just want to fuck or you do but just dont want a relationship?

[relahvent]

I've only had one friends with benefits and I wouldn't do it again. I didn't have feelings for the girl and wanted to keep it purely physical, but she eventually wanted more. She wasn't just some girl I'd call in the middle of the night for a screw, it was more of a friendship.

[lovehim24]

That is how it is for us. We are really close, but he said he isn't looking for a new relationship just a piece of ass. but I just didn't know if it was possible he had some feelings for me.

[Prof_Don]

For some reason he doesn't want boyfriend responsibilities (not emotionally reset from a breakup, plans on leaving the area soon and doesn't want to be tied down, knows he can't be faithful to one woman)...
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... but does like the girl and is attracted to her.

[THE_Godfather]

That depends on a lot. Do we get along? Do we have a lot in common? Her personality. Usually no. If I'm having fun in the sack why add a commitment or the drama of the relationship.
I was with a girl that got mad at me for treating her like a gf at a wedding. How was I suppose to treat her in front of her friends & family?

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy, how they were raised and such.

If they happen to release vasopressin, they'll get attached wether they like or not.

I personally would never have sex, unless I really cared for that person, and because I refuse to submit to vasopressin, if it just so happened to release.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Well, guys who do Friends With Benefits only do it cause they want sex they don't love you
it's the same as being used than told good-bye see ya to he comes back for more but
remember the girl he's been with the night before

[certifiedgentleman]

reality most of the guys in terms of casual relationship, we don't fall in love easily just eager for the benefits. but its unfair for the girls because they might be "preggy" and girls are easilly fall in love even they know that this is not right! sorry to tell. Girls Casual relationship is not good for you, find or wait for someone that will love as who you are.

[Alexdanielmtz]

It's kinda complicated.. cuz I used to be friends with benefits with my ex... just for the time being... it's kinda still the same.. but yeah I would say it's cuz u guys don't want a serious relationship