Agree or Disagree? You should never reject someone's romantic advances entirely on Height or Weight? (Page 2)
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Disagree. You’re allowed to be attracted to whoever you’re attracted to. But you also shouldn’t be mean to people who are shorter or taller or heavier or skinnier than your preferences and you shouldn’t have any problem being friends with them if they’re good people and they’re compatible with your personality.
I disagree.
People have preferences and that's fair. However, when rejecting someone based on either things - there's no need to be an asshole about it.
I don’t think it matters so much if you do but if you tell someone then they will only know you are the most shallow individual they know… lol!
There's a difference between rejecting someone and being mean about their physical stature.
Having a preference is perfectly fine cause you can't change what you're attracted to and being attracted to your partner is important.
That being it doesn't mean you demean or insult someone outside your preference for trying to approach you. Simply say they're not your type and move on, no need to point out something they're probably already insecure about.
It's always fine to have a preference, but if you never ever date outside of that then I could see why it'd be an issue.
If I was ugly no one would even notice I even exist. Why should I act differently than everyone?
It MUST be a preference
I once rejected a guy (who was black..)
Guess what what he said after I said no thank you I actually have a boyfriend.. he said oh you rejected me because I’m black!💀🤦🏻♀️
So what brother it doesn’t matter a no is a no
I feel like you are allowed to have preferences. If you are not attracted because of their height of weight you are not attracted, period. Being forced to like someone that you are not attracted to (to be woke or not be fatphobic of heightphobic) is wrong. If someone likes your personality and is okay to let that go should be their desicion and not forced
People can control their weight usually , they can’t control their height, so I wouldn’t be caught up in judging someone on something they can’t control. I believe height preference is a tad ridiculous, unless you’re short and maybe want/ need someone taller to help you out with things , but there’s accommodations for that too.
people who actually think that not wanting to be with someone unattractive or very shorts/too tall is superficial and mean are clowns
its fucking biology like what did you think
If seeking tall men was "biology" then more than half of the population for centuries wouldn't exist. The reason why your ancestors are alive and even you. is because men that are not tall have had children and continue to do so. It actually is superficial in a sense because tall. men are only 15% of the population so ignoring the rest based off height alone is somewhat superficial. If women do want to go for tall men because of "biology" then our species will be accelerated enough that the population will be reduced drastically within the next 100 years.
It is superficial and it's wrong, and don't call it biology because height wasn't a major issue 20 years ago than it is now.
@wow
All right then. You can date the 300 lb girls. Also the midgets and WNBA goon girls.
whats biology? exactly? lol
Love is beautiful 😊
No, people are attracted to what they're attracted to
I'd suggest being very kind while rejecting such guys. I know they would reject me if I were fat or too short so why should I accept them? There are plenty of girls they overlook before asking me out. What about those girls?
Disagree. Your preference is your preference. I wouldn't date an obese woman, for instance.
I've never rejected a woman based in height but there are women who I was just not attracted to whom I didn't pursue
I think it would be rather naïve to agree with the statement , and I'm sure the numbers will reflect the same.
Ey, if the mofo is so fat that they can't even keep up with how fast I walk which is my normal speed, it ain't gonna work.
Why wouldn't it be fine to have preferences based on height or weight?
I feel most people who disagree with this a just saying what they feel is the right thing to say rather than speaking the truth.
Disagree. If someone doesn't want to date a whale or a midget, that's perfectly reasonable.
People can choose to reject anyone they want. You don’t get to be the arbiter of someone else’s choices. If you believe you should have that power you are a toxic individual