We went on a day with this guy 3 times. He didn't pay for my coffee in any of the dates. Do you think this is a redflag?

[passenger]

He didn't even offer to pay for my coffee... What do you think about it? Should I go on seeing him?

[Anonymous]

It's possible that not paying for your coffee could be a red flag, as it may indicate a lack of consideration or respect for your needs and expectations in a relationship. However, it's also important to consider the context and to communicate openly and honestly with the person about your feelings and expectations.

If you feel uncomfortable with the fact that he hasn't paid for your coffee, it's okay to communicate that and to set clear boundaries and expectations for the relationship. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and to be true to yourself in any relationship.

Remember that relationships should be based on mutual respect, trust, and consideration, and that it's okay to prioritize your own needs and expectations in any relationship. If you feel uncomfortable or unsure about the relationship, it may be helpful to take some time to reflect on your feelings and to communicate openly with the person about your concerns.

[ManOnFire]

It's 2023. Guys are getting done with giving women free food and drinks, even if it is a date. If you're taking issue with that then you tell us a lot about what kind of woman you are.

[Anonymous]

It’s a red flag if you see him as your future husband
But if you don’t see any future with him don’t worry about it. It seems like you don’t click with his way of being a gentleman he isn’t one so In my opinion no don’t meet him. Since it seems like you prefer real men as in old fashioned and gentlemen.
You can give him another chance up to you …

[Anonymous]

He should pay yours at least once out of 3 times. Paying for a coffee isn't hard but it shows that he's not willing to invest a penny for you. Leave him or tell him your boundaries and how much you're gonna tolerate

[Anonymous]

Lol. Great way to weed out the fake "strong independent women".

No, if it bothers you, you should call it off. His companionship and personality isn't really what a relationship is about, now is it?

[bowenw]

If he asked you out on a date I believe he should pay, especially if it's the first few dates you've had with him.

[Alex8736]

time to kick his ass to the curb