However, even in general yes these are the personality traits I find attractive
1. If the woman is sweet, nice, kind and caring.
2. If the woman is really mature and never plays any kind of mind games like using the jealousy card, comparing me with others and even playing hard to get. Not replying in a reasonable time limit etc.
3. Related to point no#2, if the woman is of open book type that would be more appealing to me.
4. A woman who understand me as a person. How I am.
5. A woman who has similar interests like mine in terms of topics so that having conversations will be easier.
Being open minded. All day long. Nobody is perfect and none of my friends are. But if I'm gonna hang with someone we gotta be open minded enough to see each other's point of view and to hear each other out. I can't stand people who only care about their opinions, their point of view, and how they see the world. Because if you suggest anything contrary they go on the defensive and start arguing
Like i dont even mind if a person is really stubborn because i am sooooo stubborn. Bullheaded actually 😂 but somehow I'm also very very open minded and i want to hear everyone's point of view and see their story from their eyes. Empathy is powerful. I try to use it as much as i can.
Based on my history, I tend to lean to confidence and humor above the rest. Definitely needs to be intelligent; maybe not Einstein level, but enough for coherent conversation.
Sort of an intersection of intelligence, humor, and ability to carry on a conversation. If you forced me to choose one of those I'd say carry on a conversation.
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!! So much this. Humor can be established between two people or their innate humor learned and understood and appreciated. Likewise, intelligence is, to a certain extent, subjective, so that can be passed over. But conversing? Communicating? Air and water my friend.
Ambition, passion, resourceful, intelligent, no bullshit, not traditional, working on themselves and helping each other to be in a better place than wasting time and money in useless, fancy fanatics. Be mature but keep the childish spirit. Don't try to change me but shape me to achieve what I desire and I'll reciprocate with the same care and love.
Curiosity. Because a curious person is more likely to listen to other people since they really want to get to know something about you especially if it´s something new to them. I also like people that have humor or are a bit clumpsy because I´m like that when I trust a person.
The depth of empathy, they say empathy is the highest form of thinking for a living being to develop, only the top animals are capable of it, like dogs, dolphins, elephants, and humans. Without empathy a person is no better than a lizard.
Take it or not, to even be remotely seem interesting you need looks, im not saying it's important you just need to be better at other stuffs. Such as communication, personality and thoughts. It's a proven theory. We unconsciously consider looks as first metric until it doesn't matter.
for me its all or nothing meaning a balanced amount of mental and physical attributes or i will walk away. except i gave already walked away from all permanently now anyways.
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