Is it bad if I want to break up with my boyfriend because he is financially unstable and depends on me?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It is not inherently bad to want to break up with someone because they are financially unstable or dependent on you. Financial stability and independence are important factors to consider in any relationship, and it is understandable to want a partner who can contribute equally to the relationship and support themselves financially.

However, it is important to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, and to communicate your feelings and concerns with your partner in a respectful and non-judgmental manner. It is possible that your boyfriend is going through a difficult time and needs your support, or that he may be willing to take steps to improve his financial situation and become more independent.

If you do decide to break up with him, it is important to do so in a compassionate and respectful way, and to prioritize both of your emotional well-being. It may also be helpful to seek the guidance of a therapist or counselor who can help you work through your feelings and navigate the challenges of ending a relationship.

[Guy13]

I do not think it is. Every person has their feeling on what is important. But yeah, a man is supposed to be able to handle pressure and deal with crap better than an emotional roller coaster woman.

[Nikki1989]

It's not bad. No one needs a leech in their life.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why did you get this far in a relationship with him?