Guys would you accept a coffee invite if you think the girl is really cute, or would you think it’s creepy?

[Anonymous]

[Lionman95]

Why do you think that´s creepy? If a guy rejects it I wouldn´t assume he thinks it´s creepy but rather that he isn´t interested.
I would accept the offer if I have some interest in her either because I´ve fallen for her or because we generally have a good connection.

[MrCommodore]

How she looks wouldn't matter, as coffee invite are normally platonic in nature.

I've been invited to meet for a coffee a few times by a female colleague, but I doubt it had any romantic significance.

[UniquelyBasic]

How would it be creepy? LoL 😅 It's the least creepy thing ever

[Asker]

I want to ask this one guy but I don't know if he’s single or not. On Facebook. He doesn’t post often.

[Lliam]

Not creepy at all. It's the most casual way to to ask someone to meet in person.

[serious]

Just coffee invite?

I think I will accept it.

[notwoke]

fuck yeah, I f I thought the girl was cute I'd accept a Ruth Chris invite and pick up the tab.

[Asker]

I just hope he’s not taken…that would be embarrassing.

[DermalPunch]

ask first sweetie

[jamesgoldman]

I might, more likely to take an invite if there's gold to be bought

[CriticallyEmpty]

What would be creepy about going out for coffee, cute or otherwise?
Are you saying because she's really cute (out of our league) that there must be some other nefarious reason?

[Anonymous]

Creepy? Not at all. If I think she's cute it's all good.

[Asker]

Well I don't know if he’s single or not.

[Opinion Owner]

It's not your responsibility to know that. If he is, he'll just politely turn you down but be flattered.

[Opinion Owner]

If he is taken, that is.

[Asker]

He’s a nice guy and if he’s like me, he’s probably frustrated with the dating scene

[Opinion Owner]

He probably is indeed frustrated with the dating scene. Most guys are.

But the more likely issue is he doesn't know you're interested in him. You have two options... you can either take the initiative to ask him for coffee and see what happens, or you can hope he likes you and takes the risk of asking you out.

The chances of you getting what you want here are much lower in the latter scenario, but you are not risking rejection. You need to decide which is the lesser of the two evils.

[Asker]

I’m just gonna ask him to coffee 😊 and I’ll suggest some cute French cafe to meet at.
Yeah the dating scene is saturated with the worst people honestly. Lots of Manipulation, follows bad dating TikTok advice, not properly treating their traumas, etc. I don’t want to use a dating app again. I’ve had some good experiences and nice guys from there but they’re so rare. Lol

[Opinion Owner]

I agree with you on all of that. Good luck, I hope it goes well for you two!

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I don’t do coffee but if there are no signs of a treat then sure,

[SnowedIn]

Of course. Not creepy at all.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I don't see why not.

[Asker]

What if he thinks I’m too hot for him and wonders why I’d want to meet with him haha

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Zee shrug. It's ultimately up to you to either go for it or not.

[Jamie05rhs]

Why would that be creepy?

[shortster]

Of course