Hmm, like many things in life, I don't think this is a clear cut answer.
Few things to note on this and clear up:
1.) First and foremost, the bottom line is that I have to be physically and emotionally attracted to someone to consider them dateable. If I'm not attracted to someone for whatever the reason, chances are that's going to be an automatic friend-zone. (I consider the friendzone in most cases to be a place where emotional attraction is there but not physical attraction) I can't force myself to be attracted to someone.
2.) That being said, I am quite honestly not a fan of the pixie cut look. I like the look of long hair substantially better than that of shorter hair. This is my personal preference speaking, but I've not personally seen a girl where I like short hair better on them than long hair.
However, I have seen girls with short hair whom I've found attractive. That could be just a case though where their face is attractive enough where their hairstyles can't really make em unnattractive... If that makes sense. The cases of this is relatively rare I'd say.
3.) From that, if I'm attracted to the person as they are, then yeah, I'd consider them dateable. I can only look at them in present form as well, because I figure it's bad to hope/assume they'll change after we start dating.
A pixie cut would (probably significantly) hurt their chances of me being physically attracted to them and would therefore lessen their chances of me considering them "dateable." Nevertheless, I may well still be attracted to them even if they have short hair, so I can't make overarching statements like "never." It's just a smaller chance.
Who knows as well-- I may be so attracted to them emotionally that I can overlook some things against preferences. Attraction works in funny ways. I used to be so sure I had a preference for blonde hair but every crush I've had has been brunette or redhead 😂.
I also want to be clear (in response to your question description), my reason for not liking pixie cuts is not because I am assuming they are "lesbian" or whatever. It's basically the same kind of way how people have preferences for hair color... Although I just have a stronger preference in regards to hair length vs color.
I hate making disclaimers, but I'll make one anyway. Take note that all of what I said is just my personal preference. I am one guy out of many. Some stuff of mine may be disagreeable, but it's just my own thoughts on the matter. Everyone is different.
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It is going to depend on the person, but for myself, and speaking only for myself, I would say of course! There is nothing wrong with you because that's the way you're wanting to style your hair. Of course, I would still consider dating you if you and I were compatible and liked each other. Try not to get down on yourself if you've had others around you that have criticized your physical appearance. Trust in yourself and if you look in the mirror and you like what you see, then be not bothered by the voices of others who tried to get you to feel awful regardless of your own feelings. Those are not people you should be focused on. That's my bottom line.
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I've been with girls who had hair down to their fannies and girls with hair less than an inch long. I wouldn't mind getting together with a bald girl if she looked like Persis Khambata in STAR TREK: THE MOTION PICTURE.
I've dated some pixies in my time! Especially if your hair is wavy, it can look wonderful.
Long hair is a sign of health in a woman, ie better for suited for having children. Most men see it that way weather they realize it or not.
So depending on what you want from a relationship, short hair is food or bad.
If you are looking to settle down, long hair will help attract men with the same want. If you are looking dir a good time with no long term commitment, short hair will help attract men of the same mind set.1. I'm asexual/aromantic so I would not date a girl regardless of whether or not she has a pixie cut 2. Pixie cuts are stupid hair cuts, I'd probably avoid a girl with that haircut if I was straight/bi.
I would, absolutely. I can't think of a time when I've ever discriminated on the basis of hair. A girl is more than hair, lol.
How about a picture? They are worth a 1000 words... and I could tell you whether I'd ask you out or not. (Of course you're much younger than I so probably not but you never know... not all 17 years are the same)
Cute Cute Cute! Short, long, it's all good as long as it is cared for.
Pixie cuts are not easily pulled off. YOu have to have a slim face for it to work. I've only seen a few women in my life that I thought looked really good with pixie cuts.
Yes, I find those haircuts very cute and have dated girls with short hair in the past.
Of fucking course
I don't define people by their hairstyle
Plus I have this thing for girls with short hair
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