Guys, If an unattractive woman checks you guys out, would that be creepy?

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

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+1 y

So, that's why "reverse catcalling" is silly, right?

[Somoneelse]

I don't care about the looks. Its the actions that would make it creepy. I have a coworker that keeps trying to ask me out, even having another coworker as wingman trying to set us up for a "double-date". With obious plan to have us two being alone there. The only moment she stopped trying was the period when I had a girlfriend, but even then she sometimes asked me out for a drink after work.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Ooh. That seems desperate. 😳

[Somoneelse]

Yeah and quite annoying. I'm not the type of person to reject someone directly/rudely. But I'm to the point to just straight up tell her to stop being like that.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Find a new girlfriend then. There are plenty of beautiful young Thai girls at my gym. Lol

[Somoneelse]

Hahah. Coincidentally I'm in Thailand coming summer for a trip. But currently not looking for a new girlfriend/relationship. My priorities are now foccussed on improving myself both physically and spiritually + to pursue my goals.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

That's awesome. 👍👍👍 Anyways, Chiangmai now is suffering from PM2.5. It's better to stay away from the area for your health.

[Somoneelse]

Noted! I'll keep it in mind. Thanks!

[Yannae]

It's not her looks, it's how she does it. I've had a creeper woman at work. And it was her actions that made me uncomfortable.

[Yannae]

I agree with that update. Catcalling is catcalling.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

So it's complimenting?

[Yannae]

It is, just in an awkward manner.

[Starrrboy]

Someone said it.. It's not about her looks, it's how she does it.. but I'm gonna be honest, I've had cute girls act a little creepy or flirt really aggressively and it's just okay or sometimes lowkey hot lol.. non cute or fat girls are just no...

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

"Not about look"?

[Starrrboy]

Yeah, like I explained.. if she's unattractive it won't make me treat her less than normal... but if she's attractive sometimes she might have some pretty privileges lol..

[RavVid]

It wouldn't be creepy in my view. It would be unwelcome if she tried to get off with me.

It is more that I don't want to be forced into saying you're as ugly as sin. There have been two. One of them had a big black mole with thick black hairs on her face

[MrOracle]

By itself, no. She'd have to REALLY be creepy in her words or behavior for me to get creeped out by her. I'm not so sensitive that I'm bothered by someone looking my way.

[Drew-1990]

Why would that be creepy that would still be flattering. Average guys don't get checked out a lot so many may not admit it but it makes you happy anyway.

[LiamS95]

It probably depends on just how unattractive we're talking here.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

What is unattractive to you?

[LiamS95]

Too much makeup, fake claws like nails, fake boobs, ruined wrinkly skin from too much time spent on tanning beds, hugely obese or too scrawny. Mouthy, lack of any intelligence, rude. I can usually find something attractive about most women but those are the extremes that I don't care for.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

And they say they want a real man. Lol

[Huntingnfishin]

I've had old I mean old ladies come up to me and try and put their hotel keys in my pocket... twice! I like to think it's a compliment but it's not something I brag about

[Somoneelse]

That sounds more like a false crime-report attempt to me.

[Huntingnfishin]

@Somoneelse lol! You're welcome to believe whatever ya please man

[Somoneelse]

hahah

[Juxtapose]

No, I don't find things "creepy" unless I'm watching a scary movie or something.

[sirderpsalot123]

No lol men don't do that. Calling everything creepy is something girls do

[Hanrej]

No. I would feel silly and kind of dumb to feel creaped out by someone merely looking.

[BoobMan]

Honestly, we probably wouldn't even notice it.

[strateguy632]

not creepy, enjoy the view!

[NathanDavis]

no, it's normal

[KrakenAttackin]

No, not at all.

[boggboss]

Nope

[boggboss]

What's reverse cancelling

[boggboss]

Catcalling*

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Catcall:
To make a whistle, shout, or comment of a sexual nature to a woman passing by.
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Reverse catcalling is when a woman does that to men.

https://youtu.be/2XvOis5EDhM?si=ncxZPyBv_y9iEDdg

From the vid, it looks like they're flattered, not scared like women feel.

[boggboss]

Why is it gender specific just name it catcalling both ways no

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

I supposed men think catcalling is complimenting but many women don't?

[OtterMan68]

why would it be?

[Rohaan2020]

Not creepy for me

[Night_Descends]

Nope.

[dudeinohio]

Nope

[jahaims]

No lol

[Sam12348]

Nope

[eagle1951]

not really