What is the hardest about getting over someone?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Getting over someone can be a difficult and emotionally challenging process. Some things that can make it particularly hard include:

1. Strong emotional attachment: If you were deeply in love with the person or had strong emotional ties to them, it can be hard to let go of those feelings and move on.

2. Memories and reminders: Even after a relationship ends, you may still have memories or reminders of the person that can be difficult to forget. Whether it's places you used to go together, shared hobbies, or sentimental items, these things can trigger strong emotions and make it harder to move on.

3. Uncertainty about the future: When a relationship ends, it can be hard to know what the future holds. You may feel uncertain about whether you'll find love again, or worry that you'll never feel the same way about someone else.

4. The grieving process: The end of a relationship can be a form of loss, and it's normal to go through a grieving process. This can involve feelings of sadness, anger, or denial, and may take time to work through.

5. Changes in routine and identity: When a relationship ends, it can also lead to changes in your routine, habits, and sense of identity. This can be challenging to navigate, especially if you feel like you've lost a part of yourself along with the relationship.

It's important to remember that getting over someone takes time, and that everyone's process is different. Be patient with yourself, seek support from friends and loved ones, and consider seeking professional help if you're struggling to move forward.

[Anonymous]

Accepting the reality that you created that person they were in your head. There is NOTHING special about them that 3.5 billion other of thier gender on thier planet isn't the same.

It's all just hormones in your head. Love doesn't even start till limmerance wears off which lasts anywhere from 2 months to 3 years. So if you've only been with them less than 3 years. It most likely wasn't Love anyhow.

It was just hormones in your brain lying to you.

[Anonymous]

To forget or live with their memories as they will be haunting you, you need to carry it as a baggage by healing yourself with the time

[Ms_Facesitter]

Wanting it to last, thinking it can work out. If you can get past that, there isn't much or maybe no heartache.

[In_Trance]

Your inability to leave the past behind you and focus on what you need right now

[Anonymous]

The calls nightly.

[riverrat3]

Letting go