Do you find it hard to get over someone?

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aquamarine321 · Accepted Answer

As long as you love someone it will always be difficult to get over someone

Joshuabenitez · Accepted Answer

Yes I don't like to throw away my investments in people.

kylee2437 · Answer

Depends on the person. I just accept the fact that the harm they did doesn’t fit my standards

Pinay_ako · Answer

Ofc especially if it was real and intense

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes if the relationship lasted a long time and things felt amazing between the both of you and then all of a sudden they change their mind and no longer value or love you like they use to , leaving you with a constant question mark as to what changed all of a sudden and why aren’t they loving you like they use to all of a sudden , When they start getting distant and cold and irritated by all your actions or everything that comes out of your mouth and they start criticizing you and belittling you and comparing you , the intimacy and affection no longer matters to them , whether they are cheating on you or not they are pretty much already cheating on the relationship by only doing what is best for them , they see no wrong on their doings and act like you are crazy when really they are , then they choose to walk away from you because they can’t handle the fact that they are wrong so , they latch on to someone else to save them instead of trying to fix it with you , realizing You gave your heart to someone that is completely selfish that only cares about themselves , Yes it’s hard because you are clueless as to what happened and why all of a sudden they changed on you when they use to love you with all their heart as well , realizing you were just being played the whole time and used as their convenience, Most people in general are selfish people , they expect someone to change for them but the truth is you can’t change for anyone , they are the ones that changed not you

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

An ex that was easy to get over. I was dating someone in high school who turned into a psycho by pulling out a chef's knife on me and a couple of other people. I ended up calling the cops on her and on top of attempted murder she was underage and drunk, her 10 year old sister was drunk and her mom was drunk. In the fridge was 90% filled with wine coolers. I was instantly done after that.

A ex I had a hard time getting over. She was very attractive funny, loving, caring, fun to be around, respectful, loved my family etc. Her mom meddled way too much into the relationship. Tryied to control where we could and could not go. It caused us not to go to some fairs, festivals, concerts, museuns, the zoo etc. Her mom had to know what point A was going to be, when we leave to go there, when we grt there and so on until my ex her dsughter got back home. Somrtimes her mom wiuld c a ll to have us take a picture of where we were be it church, the mall, restaurant, movie theater etc. She couldn't stay at my place long enough for romance or intimacy. I told her mom that she was the resson for our rebeing over. Her older sister stopped by and I told her that it was over between me and sister. She looked at their mom and asked if she was trying to control another one of her sister's relationships. If it wasn't for her mom I believe we would still be together.

silvermoon84 · Answer

Depends on the connection and the people involved. Sometimes you get over the person and move on, sometimes you don’t stop loving the person and you work it out and get back together and sometimes you don’t stop loving them but you realize they weren’t meant to be in your life long term and accept it for what it is. That’s fine as long as you love yourself enough not to pine over them.

asphaltrhymes · Answer

Time really does make it easier, and reminding one's self that, you know, they probably weren't my type or their type, anyway, so, over time and just becomes a distant emotionless memory.
Especially when replaced by even more beautiful replacements or just, people even change. Me at 29 definitely ain't completely me at 19. And ongoing, that we all can be ☺️☺️☮️✌🏻✌🏻☮️🥳

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

Nope.

Rejection comes naturally.

I am a glass half full kinda dude. But a glass half empty dude when it comes to dating because women’s emotions change a lot.

BUT, because I AM a glass half FULL kinda dude, I move on to the next candidate.

DizzyDesii · Answer

For a good 24-72 hours then I’m good again. I might have really liked or loved someone, but it feels so good to be free to flirt again. So like why keep mourning a mf thats dead to me now, ya know 🤷‍♀️

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

There's only one woman who ever came into my life that I'll never get over, and she's waiting for me in Heaven. The rest of them bitches were old news the second I said goodbye

SaRang21 · Answer

Yes I think so. Sometimes it’s not even because I’m in love with them, but simply just emotional attachment.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Very hard. That’s why I’m reluctant about getting involved with others. I feel like every break up I’ve ever had has wounded a part of my heart. I feel tired.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Not anymore. Now I feel like he’s the one starting to miss me…  I guess the grass isn’t that green on the other side.

Unit1 · Answer

No, i'm a lone wolf like Squall Leonhart. I grew up to be a loner. Was most of the time a loner for my good. People and friends come and go.

catiecatie · Answer

I do. I had someone break my heart last year and it took me 6 months to completely move on. Fucking idiot. Thank god I dodged a bullet!

Screenwriter · Answer

Maybe if it was a longtime friend, relative or relationship. But time heals all, I believe. Has worked for me that way.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Just depends on the circumstances. If the relationship runs its course and you know it isn't going further, I find it easier to get over it.

Lynzerilee · Answer

Yes it takes me years, and I hate that it does when other people move on so easily.

Anonymous · Answer

I am very selective who I give my time and energy to so yes, very much so especially when romantic investment and emotional attachment is involved.

Anonymous · Answer

Not anymore. When I was younger yeah. But I've learned to never get too close. Now I'm always ready for her to break it off at any moment for any reason.

RingOfFire · Answer

It's hard to forget a girl when you bought her a gift on a monthly payment plan!

Christoff92 · Answer

It's makes a big difference if you accept yourself 😁

gotrice · Answer

Difficult cuz I catch feelings once in a blue moon, also never been in a relationship :/

jeanneinborabora · Answer

I never ever “got over” my first love. I can’t even tell you how many years ago that was. RJR

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

You can't even imagine... I've been obsessing over a girl every single day for 6 years

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, I move on very quickly.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Only if they are tall or moving quickly.

Akam93 · Answer

Yes especially if I liked him a lot.

red_knight · Answer

It's not fun or easy

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Strangely I don't

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not so far

LavLavLuv · Answer

For me no

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