My boyfriend has too much female friends but ı want that he reduce that number, what could ı do? How can ı ask something like that without being a restrictive girlfriend?
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Once you get into that dynamic, one can not go back and change it once Girlfriend status is reached. I never get involved with a woman who has male friends or Bestie because of the fact they are friends. Something about them attracted them to one another. It is like one too many drink away kind of thing.
"You knew my friendships and how I am in general before we started dating. Why are you trying to change me now?"0
You can’t really tell him who he can or can’t be friends with. Are they doing anything that’s crossing boundaries? I mean, you can voice your concerns if they’re doing something that’s making you uncomfortable. Is your boyfriend doing anything he’s not suppose to with these girls? You gotta remember we’re social creatures. We make variety of friends.0
Did he have those friends before he met you? Then you can't do anything, you will be the restrictive girlfriend. The only thing you can do is to learn to get over your insecurities.0
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he should run the minute you suggest this.
don't be that controlling crazy girlfriend meme please.0
you can't. This is your issue that you need to fix before you fuck up your relationship10
That's a tough one.0
you can't. Next question.10
do you have male friends?0
Why don't you just tag along. Or make plans with him and tell him you want one of the lady friends to tag along.
This does two things. One, you might find out that she's really cool after all and they are way too incompatible to have to worry.
The second thing it does is give you ammo if you realize that she is in fact untrustworthy.
Personally if I were in his shoes that's the only way I'd stop talking to someone is if my girl gave the person I consider a friend a genuine chance to see them like I do.
Maybe it's a guy thing but I take loyalty to friends very seriously and to stop talking to someone I've known for years ultimately because my girlfriend doesn't trust me... The girlfriend is gonna lose that one and I'll find someone who has genuine respect for me.