Guys, 3 toxic traits in men and women when dating?

[_Just_A_girl_]

[Anonymous]

Probably the 3 biggest are

1. Attitude of entitlement: I see this with women today where most don't want partnership. And it's debatable if they really even want a relationship. Many just want a fan base. Sometimes a guy sometime a group of guys that will fill whatever fantasy she seeks at the time. And when that guy doesn't deliver that guy is no longer deemed useful to her anymore.

2. unrealistic expectations: I have seen many 20 something girls on here say that a guy needs to make a minimum of 50k a yr. For her even consider him. Now considering the national avg. Income is about 54k this isn't a bad estimate of what someone should make. But it's the proclamation of it as though it isn't negotiable. I think most of these girls are too young to realize that life doesn't care about your standards an expectations. And it makes me wonder if this guy gets laid of through potentially no fault of his own and has to take a temporary job if she going to pull up stakes and move on. This is why I tell any young girl that will listen (which is many😆) pick a guy with character. Fine pick a guy that you still fill is going places. But worry most about his character. Because 50k can be lost. But I guy with character will never stop fighting for her. I don't think most of these girls even know what character looks like and I'm afraid the reality of life is going to end up hitting them like a mack truck at some point.

Lack of commitment: this kind of piggy backs on my initial point. a lot of women today simply do not want to commit to a guy. They have a real Jr. High mentality, a lot of it may be social media. But they really only want a guy that increases thier social standing. As I said in my initial point. They don't really want a relationship. They just call it that.

[_Just_A_girl_]

these points I read and get... also

do men fulfil their fantasy? growing body count leaving girls in the dust then say she's a h word or is that false?

[Opinion Owner]

It no coincidence that the women who are more grounded in reality/realistic generally have longer happier relationships.
I don't really understand the second part of your question. Are you asking do guys sleep with a gi then call her a H word and then move on? Because the answer is, if she chooses the wrong guy. Refer to my previous statement about being grounded in reality. Most women create thier own problems by choosing bad men.

[Unit1]

In women:

• Gold digging
• Telling us not to have friends of the opposite sex or to not look at other girls
• Asking for our passwords

[_Just_A_girl_]

What y'all have in common is money fears
is there no such thing as being wise w your money

should she get smll amt or no? If no,
does it breed more "im independent woman. what are you man- provider good for then"
?

[Unit1]

I don't share the opinion of GAG blues hating on feminists or career ladies, so i'm not going to stir up that hive.
The fear of being used for money is a real issue, in which i aim to filter out the ones, that have no intentions for a non-transactional relationship.

[Juxtapose]

I'm not going to include dishonesty or disloyalty because that's a given and nobody likes people who can't be honest or loyal.

1. More lust for money than lust for me.

2. More desire for social status than desire for me.

3. A vacuous mind. I don't like empty heads with no intellectual curiosity or creativity. What are we going to talk about that has any substance if you have no intellectual curiosity or creativity?

[Anonymous]

Love bombing.
Asking for money.
Gatekeeping who you can talk to.

[_Just_A_girl_]

Okay heard

gatekeeping is dangerous why do they do it?
Do u make it known to your dates you dont want tobe asked to give or gift her as your future girlfriend? or you don't bother?

[Opinion Owner]

They do it to make you dependent upon them. Giving gifts are fine; it is when they ask for money that is the problem.

[_Just_A_girl_]

i heard that bit ok ty for explaining tho on top of it all you didn't answer part of q lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Which part did I miss?

[bamesjond0069]

Independent girl boss

Masculine

Unhealthy

[gag36627]

Being manipulative
Ignoring and avoiding questions
Playing mind games.

[DJB72]

Self centred
Miserly
Racist

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I like racist girls. They're rugged individuals who aren't afraid to say what they think

[burlen]

Arrogance. Abusive. Racist.