Am I overreacting when my boyfriend said he would easily get over me and date other girls after we break up?

[awkwardddgirl]

I felt sad thinking about him with someone else but he said that i would get over him not as fast as he would because he is my first boyfriend

[comekitty]

To me that's an awful big red flag but I obviously don't know him as a whole - only you do.

I will say this, tho... if I could talk to my younger self in the same situation, I'd tell that big blue eyed, kind hearted, hard loving girl this, "Girl, get your head outta the clouds and save yourself some heartache - cut this chump loose. Better is coming."

Any how, for whatever its worth, that's the advice I'd give myself.

Wishing you all the best. 💜

[awkwardddgirl]

thank you

[comekitty]

Of course!
I truly hope everything works out for you.
🙂

[Chill_Thoughts]

Yeh you're not overreacting, he doesn't feel like he needs you and in a healthy partnership, both sides support and depend on each other a healthy amount

[Kyr0s]

You shouldn't be even discussing that in a healthy relationship.

[awkwardddgirl]

he is my first boyfriend and he might leave in a year so we talked about it ig. but then he said guys always remember their first girlfriend. So it implies he will never love me as much as his ex so moving on will be easier ig

[Kyr0s]

Why are you staying in a relationship with someone who isn't planning to be with you forever?

[awkwardddgirl]

because we don't know what's gonna happen in the future what if it works out? plus we really like each other

[awkwardddgirl]

and i don't want to ruin our relationship because of my overthinking

[Kyr0s]

This will only end up badly. That's all I'll say.

[SolSolBunBun]

Absofuckinglutely!