What places should I go to to have fun and to increase my chance of meeting a decent guy?

[Anonymous]

I don't think parties would work, I'm not a party person and I don't want to act as someone whom I'm not.

I want a normal, decent guy with a sense of humor, who knows how to have fun without necessarily using drugs and drinking too much. Few drinks are fine and I can even handle some smoking. 30+- or something old, I'm 23 and I prefer slightly older guys (both mentally and visually).

I'm looking for ideas, daily activites where the chance of meeting someone is higher but I guess it's all a matter of faith/luck. :/

Please share where you met your special someone.

I don't have any true friends left so friends and friends of friends are out of the question.

[Jdjfjcjj]

A decent guy is assume means someone better than your now ex where in the process of dating him, you stopped talking to your friends you had before, hence you not having very many left?

Guess your version of decent will be different than others so not sure what version you actually seeking

[Asker]

I never had a boyfriend before. : So no ex. No past anything.
Me and my friends fell out, some of them were toxic. They told me I don't deserve to get a job like the one I got and other stuff.

[HighValue]

Date a school bus driver. They have to have a very good record and no drug use AZ nd no DUIs either and are tested frequently. I don't know how you would meet one though. Do you have any hobbies that you could possibly join a group for that hobby to meet someone?

[cryscrys1]

You don’t look for it
You are trying to control it.. right one might show up when you turn 27..
if you simply want to get over it and find someone to fulfill random thoughts and worries you might have them tinder is the way.

[williael]

A bookstore, museum, or theater would increase your chances of meeting an intelligent guy!

I met my guy at work. He delivers the packages 📦 !

[magiusX26]

good start with not at parties because thats less likely where a good guy will be anyways. same for clubs and bars. actually a good place to get an idea, home depot, lowes, hardware store, sporting goods store, resturaunts nearby a gym, possibly a barber shop. this can be one of the times a stereotyping can be a possitive.

[ThomasDavid1989]

Places you go. Lol. if you don't go out, you'll never meet a decent guy. But if you go out, to the places you typically go, you'll always meet people, and guys.

Don't use dating apps. THEY ARE SCAMS

[strlb]

The best place to meet a guy/girl is at a social club or hobby that interests you. When you're doing something that you enjoy and least expect it, they will be there. Best of luck! DM always open

[bamesjond0069]

Too vague. Decent and doesn't drink or smoke much. Tons of shitty men will qualify for this. Be more selective.

[gag36627]

First of all you have to present yourself as the way you like others to see you. Then the ones who like your personality would recognize you.

by the way can we talk

[ElGato31]

meetup. com, shared interest groups

[Ben487]

your school or college

[Asker]

I already have a job and it's full of old people :D

[Drdeeznuts1132]

I'm free after eight.

[Drdeeznuts1132]

I'm kidding💀 chill.

[LickSmack]

My idea is Church.