Do you think it's okay for a woman with a learning disability to find a docent relationship with an older man who has a learning disability?

[TheSimFans]

Could a man with a learning disability and older than me be the ideal partner for me? I realize that all of my previous relationships failed because they were younger than me. As a young woman with a learning disability, I wasn't interested in many older men. However, now I might be more interested in men who are older than me. Younger men don't really care about relationships. Having previously dated or been in a relationship with men who also have learning disabilities has happened to me. Some young men don't seem to care about finding a partner or dating. I've been trying to find older men who have a learning disability, to see if there is any difference between those who are younger. People with learning disabilities are considered mature or immature at about the age of maturity. Those are some of my own experiences with some men I met or befriended. In addition, I have seen some learning disability men on Facebook dating. The new man that i been texting is also looking for a long term relationship and looking for friends. Before he responded, he asked me what I was looking for. I'm interested in getting to know the person first then serious relationship after that. Then both have common interested of liking dogs the other men i be bit turn off for only prefer to text only and not interested in video call or mobile phone/cell phone to call.

[OfMiceandMen]

I think a lot of older men tend to want less drama in their life and are ready to settle-down in comparison to younger guys. So if the older guy works for you and treats you the way you want to be treated, then I can see you being happy.

As long as you keep things low key (no drama), the way he likes it, you should be good.

[TheSimFans]

@ofmiceandmeni already seen both ended with one older men that were dramatized and i wasn't. i also seen younger men that were toxic and also has one older men when i was in high school and was manipulator. not all women are same things. is was always men that started to the drama. other girls also did too drama. i wasn't me.

[OfMiceandMen]

I'm just saying in general. It may not be your experience, but it tends to be like that.

[Lliam]

Sure. It's entirely possible.
Besides it's common for men to be older than women in relationships.
Don't limit yourself based on age.

[Lliam]

Thank you for the MHO.

[LickwidSkie]

People without learning disabilities do it. I don't see how it's any different. Some of the longest-lasting marriages I know of personally are between people where the man is around 10 years older than the woman. I'm not sure it's a good idea to go much older than that though. You have to remember that women tend to live longer than men and if you get a man that's a lot older you're likely to end up widowed with many years left to live. .

[Berethor]

Well most women date men older than themselves so what make you worried about that?

[TheSimFans]

when i was in high school and i was a older men but he was a manipulator but i broke up with him when i was at youth club and also i don't any toxic relationship. just want a docent one relationship that never got my previous ex boyfriends after college was some were cheaters. that can talk and listen .

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Yeah, why wouldn't it be?

[Batsy01010101]

yeah