What should I do to find a boyfriend and what are the stages of relationship?

[Anonymous]

I've never had a boyfriend cause I had some problems that family pressures, depression, my exams and I didn't love myself so I take therapy and now I feel it's right time for have a boyfriend

[Anonymous]

Don't go looking for a boyfriend. When it's the right time, the boy will find you. It will hit you like a freight train when it happens. The stages of a relationship are the honeymoon stage when you first get to know each other and everything feels so right, then there's the comfortable stage where you start to reveal the things about each other that you wouldn't have in the beginning, then there's the make it or break it stage of a relationship where everything becomes bare and you have to decide whether or not you can see yourself with this person for the rest of your life or not.

[Asker]

But I didn't even have my first kiss

[Opinion Owner]

It will happen. Just don't look for it. The right boy will come to you and when he does you will have your first kiss.

[Jamie05rhs]

First, you need to take some time to study about men. Ask a lot of questions from wise older women that you trust. (Older as in 40 and above. I wouldn't trust the advice of anyone younger.) Learn all that you can about men and how they operate. You do not want to go into this blind and uniformed. You could get seriously hurt.

[Asker]

My elders are my family and they are also putting pressure on me.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh; darn. Well, then you need to find new mentors. You don't want to take advice from someone who is pressuring you; that's not good.