Is this guy a waste of time?

[Anonymous]

Had date number 2 planned with guy this Saturday aftenoon.
Got a text around 9:30am saying he wasn’t feeling so good and maybe meeting tomorrow would be better. Or no problem if not can still come today.

I wasn’t sure if he was telling the truth or not, but didn’t want to meet with someone who was unwell or didn’t really want to meet as it wouldn’t be fun.

So I said I had plans, but could reschedule as I don’t want him to think i’m always free.
He said thanks and apologies again.
We left it at that and I just had a random thought to check tinder and it show’s his distance has changed and he’s like an 1hr away from his area.

I know this is only a second date, but would you see this as a red flag?

I take it if he didn’t want to see me he would have just cancel and wouldn’t haven’t suggested rescheduling?

Updates

+1 y

Thanks for the adivice, left it with him overnight and got a message this morning saying he'll be setting off a certain time to mine and he's looking forward to it.

So will see how date number 2 goes before I completly write him off.

[TrueConfection]

It sounds to me like he was just being polite about giving you a heads up that he might be coming down with something, especially since he offered to keep the plan if you were ok with it.

I don't think he was required to stay home in bed all day if you weren't comfortable.

I think monitoring his location and analyzing his thoughts is a bit much. Simply reschedule and see what happens.

[mark000h]

I wouldn't like it. Sounds like he didn't really want to be there. If some girl did that to me, I'd blow her off.

[Anonymous]

HUGE RED FLAG