Single forever?

[Austin04]

I'm 18 and I've never really been in a relationship (there was some business in middle school but it doesn't count, trust me). I've never had someone like me, or be attracted to me. Heck I've never been on a date. Aside from the blanket, "put yourself out there more" what should I do? Has/is anyone else experiencing a similar situation?

[Pegases]

Men and women are almost reversed when it comes to how attractive they are to the opposite sex. Women are valued for their physical appearance before anything else, and men are valued for their intellect, and resources. So as a man, you need to be thinking long game. Women are a big distraction when it comes to your goals in life, so the time you have now, is prime time to start building the life you truly want. So think about how you want to live five years from now. How much money do you want to have, where do you want to live, do you want to be working a 9-5 or do you want to own your own business? Are you going to college for something specific or a trade school? Next, like everything else in life, youve gotta earn what you want, and women wait at the finish line for successful men. So the key is to become the best version of you. The things I did was learn how to box, got into IT because it's one the most lucrative fields to be in, established good credit, started a liquidation business, and spent my free time learnign about inetrpersonal relationships between men and women. In other words, game. Most men your age worry about women, but it's never worth worrying about. Because it's everything that you do with your life that dictates the kinds of women you'll have to choose from. So if you want quality women, worked towards becoming a quality man. You'll get there. Good luck.

[art84]

I remember when I was 19/20 and there was a girl that I liked. I asked her out and she said sure call me anytime and gave me her number. We never went out cause she was seeing someone and in love with him. She at least was sorry that she couldn't date me as she really wanted to but was in a serious relationship. I never put myself out there after that incident and just remained single in my 20's and 30's.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Good luck, man. I'm thirty two and in the same boat having spent a good portion of my time looking. Rooting for you.