Guys do you date girls for their Physical appearance or their personality?

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gerald5466 · Accepted Answer

I would say it's in the middle kind of they don't have to be like drop dead gorgeous but not just plain ugly and they can't be mean

Cheerfull009 · Accepted Answer

I consider both, not one

TalynMere · Answer

I think personality? I mean appearance is nice, hygiene is important obviously, you can't say that appearance doesn't matter at all, but what really attracts me is how someone acts.

A pretty face is nice, but like, the way someone moves, how they speak, emotional control, open-mindedness, enthusiasm, it's the only thing that actually makes that connection.

I could never sleep with someone on looks alone, that's basically just masturbating to porn. You gotta have the connection and the passion and be the right dom/sub balance for each other.

DaySpring · Answer

When you understand why relationships last and why others don't, your views on physical appearance will alter dramatically. Personality is most important and it really isn't even close. Not even remotely close. I don't know even know if personality is the best word for it. Because people choose to focus on the good things. Every time that person gets made, that is apart of their person too. I'd say conditioning is a better word.

BCA6010 · Answer

Appearance does matter, but no meaningful relationship is going anywhere without a good personality. In an over-simplified explanation, looks get a man interested, and personality keeps a man interested.

Cupido29 · Answer

The appearance is important just in the beginning, for the love at first sight. The personality is the most important; that maintains love, or even creates it, if the physical appearance is not enough

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Initially it is their physical appearance, which triggers asking someone out. The first date is all about getting to know the person and whether you continue to see them, and them you.

Quackthulu2 · Answer

Both. Nobody is going to date someone they don’t find attractive. Just like nobody is going to stay with someone they don’t get along with.

Air_Force_Guy · Answer

When I was younger, mostly looks. As I get older, I realize a 10 with a shit personality won't last so I try to find a mixture of both personality and looks

richardcory · Answer

Personality. Appearance may get the initial attention, but even the most beautiful women on earth would get dull very quickly if she didn't have an interesting fun personality.

Katie1964 · Answer

I believe, I don't know as a lady, but I believe guys initially go for girls based on looks but stay or leave on personality.

SawerBrown · Answer

A woman's physical appearance is probably the first thing a guy notices but more importantly in forming a long term relationship is a friendly outgoing personality and her disposition.

Guardian45 · Answer

Personality first, physical appearance second. If a woman isn't beautiful inside, then outside doesn't matter.

Rizwan_khan · Answer

Personality is major thing but physical appearance is also matters because whenever we see any person we attract towards them by their appearance and it is good manner that person should look good and have hyigine etiquette.

ColHathi · Answer

Personality. ... So yeah, not a lot of dating in my life when I don't just want to walk up to the first pretty girl and ask her out.

gag37627 · Answer

I always looked for personality. I think i should change that. Because I always met toxic people whom I thought were nice. If I looked for beauty, at least I would get that

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Personality, 10,000%. I made the physical beauty mistake once and I'll never repeat it.

AimeeKyle · Answer

A combination of both. I have to be attracted to them in some way but need mental stimulation as well.

Stevefiveo · Answer

A combination of both. I have to be physically attracted to them to date them. The personality part is the deciding factor on whether they are girlfriend material or just side chick material.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Initial attraction will be mostly appearance, but as long as she is not obese I am pretty open. For dating, it is personality.

Akam93 · Answer

They go for looks more. You can treat a man like trash but hey if your beautiful it won't matter to them.

Adogdog · Answer

Honestly, I would like both at my age. I'm single and want to find someone to marry. I think it's reasonable to want both :)

SunnyRS · Answer

It's about neither in my case it's about connection, if I talk to someone and feel that connection then definitely I would love to date her otherwise not.

Anonymous · Answer

It's both. I'll take a 6 with a great attitude over a stick-in-the-mud 9 or 10 any day. But admittedly, she has to be above average in looks to even get my attention.

clampfan101 · Answer

Personality is by far most important. However looks often effect how one’s personality is guessed. (A big part of first impressions.)

Spade_01 · Answer

A mix obviously.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Attraction usually starts with looks and grows with personality.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I always dated for their eyes, smile and personality.

JonesT10Apr · Answer

mixed of both plus I have little more preference too

Dreamclouds · Answer

Both usually but personality has a bigger impact for sure

Amur8711 · Answer

Physical appearance gets me interested, personally decides if I date lor forget

Anonymous · Answer

It's about combination. I like happy girls i don't like cranky girls. But i understand that girls can't be happy 24 seven

Paulychicagoluv · Answer

Both preferred

Josef_89 · Answer

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slatyb · Answer

Personality.

Greenbins · Answer

They have to have both...

htmndg183 · Answer

Personality.

andy530 · Answer

Both tbh

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.

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