Do you date on looks or personality?

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Sodomite · Accepted Answer

I only care about two things when it comes to dating: does she have a tight little asshole that's begging to be stretched open by my monster cock, and is she willing to take part in the most kinky and taboo BDSM fantasies imaginable? Looks? Personality? Who gives a fuck about that bullshit? All I want is a filthy slut who loves nothing more than being tied up, spanked until her ass is bright red, and fucked like the dirty whore she is. So yeah, let's just say I "date" based on pure sexual attraction and willingness to indulge in my twisted desires.

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

I think I'm a rare one in that I tend to go for personality 60% of the time and looks 40%. If she's hot as fuck but doesn't have a good personality, I don't want it. Cute username by the way.

Biancam13 · Accepted Answer

Both. I have to be at least attracted, and I like good looking guys at least at first. But personality is most of the attraction, and a good personality can make any guy look better than he already does.

overthinkergirl · Accepted Answer

looks attract and personality makes you stay

dynamicyandere · Answer

Personality is #1 by far, but looks are necessary for sexual chemistry and attraction. My standards for personality are very high and my standards for looks are average.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Both. I need to be attracted to him in some way.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

Personality. Both really, but there have been some times where a guy wasn't super physically attractive but his personality was so attractive that it made him look sexy.

Kevininja363 · Answer

It starts as attraction to make an attempt and a risk by putting yourself out there and the rest of learning about the other person is the personality to figure out if she is someone that I want in my life.

Anemone978 · Answer

Both.. but if I actually try dating again it will be only on looks I go for because I dislike men now..

Still-alive · Answer

10% looks 90% personality. And too me the only physical things i care about are her face and she can't be obese. The rest is all personality for me

Billlewis · Answer

Mostly personality, because I want her to know how to dominate that ass;)

lilaccc · Answer

first is personality, and then goodlooking is a bonus. lol

ChiTown33 · Answer

The question isn't as simple as either or. I need to be attracted to her, but over 50% of women are attractive to me, so that part isn't hard initially. But if she has no personality or we have nothing in common, then simply finding them attractive will not sustain it.

Anonymous · Answer

Personality. But not put a paper bag over her head type and definitely not a roll her in flour to find the wet spot type either.

dolemite58 · Answer

looks at first, it’s personality that matters in relationships tho

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I think everyone dates on that initial appearance attraction and then it takes a while to get to know their personality.

curlygirllll · Answer

both. i’m not gonna pretend like looks don’t play a part lol.

imran_ · Answer

Men with dignity and responsibility doesn't "date", they just marry enquiring the background from the neighborhood or close friends or classmates.

Nirmroth · Answer

Looks first then personality. If I don't find her attractive, I noticed that I dont really try or care getting to know her.

Starrrboy · Answer

I don't really have an agenda lol.. I'm just attracted to someone as a whole.. but personality always comes first.. a pretty girl is just a pretty girl, a stranger.. girl with personality and vibe I like, babe material lol..

mandyfire98 · Answer

Both really. I mean personality weighs the most but physical attraction matters as well.

Anonymous · Answer

personality. i know guys always think we're lying when we say that, but you and i both know that looks fade and the personality is the soul of the person.

EmmaMary · Answer

It would be  Personality  ever time.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

As I get older, I'm realizing more and more how much personality means to me..

HighlyQuestionable · Answer

Both come into play.

Chthou95 · Answer

Looks first, personality second. This is how most human beings function regardless of the politically correct opinions

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I need both if they don't have both they dont have a chance with me

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Personality! But having a decent body sure does sweeten the deal! 🙂

pickles77 · Answer

Attracted first then personality then morality then values

maroon_eyez · Answer

60% personality for me to be interested and 40% looks to be attracted

LexiHunnyP93 · Answer

@babybear93 personality, do you date or attracted to girls?

BLP11520 · Answer

Haven't dated in forever, but personality

Anonymous · Answer

Always look 🔥🔥 She must have big tits n sexy figure 🔥

Nikki1989 · Answer

Personality, no contest.

swettannie · Answer

Both !

Tiishyy · Answer

For me personally, it would be 50/50

dudeinohio · Answer

Personally

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Both.

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

Both actually

shades777 · Answer

100% looks 100% personality

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Both

Anonymous · Answer

Both

Aphrodite801 · Answer

A man being attractive is the bare minimum.

Anonymous · Answer

Both

shortster · Answer

20% looks 80% personality.

Sparkie460 · Answer

Personality

jahaims · Answer

Both

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